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Sneaky 01-05-2010 01:56 PM

Would you go out with a 10 if she had a kid
 
This is pretty much directed at the 25 and under crowd.




This is the girl

http://www.celebrityhonkers.com/medi...5232_large.jpg


You always run into her at the library and at starbucks. Whenever you see each other you guys smile but it never goes past that.

http://famousmud.files.wordpress.com...s_smoking1.jpg

skip forward about two weeks and you randomly see her on the street. You're thinking Im just gonna smile and nod as usual but something makes you blurt out "hi" and ask how shes doing. Shes having a horrible day and tells you all about it.

You can tell she likes you because of her eye contact, the he way touches your arm and plays with her hair when talks to you.....you don't want to leave but you're in a hurry so you say you gotta go and suggest dinner tonight, she accepts.


http://cm1.theinsider.com/media/0/51...0.557x912.jpeg


So the date is going well, better then expected. In the back of your mind you're wondering why shes even with your ass. She says she wondered if you'd ever ask her out. You're on top of the world right now then all of a sudden she mentions her 2 year old.

http://www.scottcounseling.com/wordp...rible-twos.jpg


Apparently she ran away with her bf and moved here but as soon as the baby was born he disappeared leaving her as a single mom. She managed to get her life together. Shes working part time as a waitress and attending university at night but life still gets hard.


Would you still continue to date her?

SLVR JDM 01-05-2010 01:57 PM

Great looking girl. For me (at that age) a kid would be a deal breaker. If we were both 40ish, kids would be completely different.

VillanovaGrad 01-05-2010 01:58 PM

hell yeah... but she smokes... thats kind of a turn off
imho moms should not smoke.. its not good values

joeski3d 01-05-2010 01:58 PM

Yep. :thumbsup: This is a road I've traveled down a few times. They tend to be more commitment oriented and looking for a long term situation. This can be good... or bad depending on what you're looking for.

Raymond42262 01-05-2010 02:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VillanovaGrad (Post 11127292)
hell yeah... but she smokes... thats kind of a turn offimho moms should not smoke.. its not good values

+1

She is good looking though.

I would not let a kid get in the way.

Fisch330ciTopasBlau 01-05-2010 02:03 PM

not if she's looking for a daddy for her kid

my girlfriend has a kid but he's about to turn 18 so no big deal to me.
(i'm old) :(

Sneaky 01-05-2010 02:04 PM

lol Ignore the cig.


I was just thinking about this the other day. I personally wouldn't but If i was in my mid/late 30s then It wouldn't be an issue.

Bartacus 01-05-2010 02:05 PM

If she's a keeper, hell yes. But I'm well over 25. :) If you're looking for a fling/booty call, hell no. I presume she's had enough of the "love em and leave em" type since she got dumped after a baby. That's some cold sh!t right there.

BeRzErKaS 01-05-2010 02:06 PM

Go out with? Sure.

Dip & Wiggle? Sure.

Commit long term to raising someone else's screaming, brat-ass sack of failed spermicide? No, I'll pass.

No one under 25 needs that kind of hassel.

scowil 01-05-2010 02:09 PM

early 20s no, but just wait till you get to late 20s early 30s, (28 here) it seems like atleast 1 out of every 2 girls i meet has a kid. not a deal breaker or anything just have to know what you want out of the situation.

VillanovaGrad 01-05-2010 02:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by joeski3d (Post 11127293)
Yep. :thumbsup: This is a road I've traveled down a few times. They tend to be more commitment oriented and looking for a long term situation. This can be good... or bad depending on what you're looking for.

:rolleyes:

i cant imagine what a jersey bmw 323i driver's pick up line for a perfect 10 would be...

"babe, i drive a BMW M323i, i just came out of the tanning salon, and i can do the fist pump better than anyone in the world."

Devious1 01-05-2010 02:10 PM

i would probably go out with her, but it wouldn't be too serious. pump it and dump it.

Wes 01-05-2010 02:11 PM

Is that the girl from Degrassi? :rofl:

Snik 01-05-2010 02:15 PM

yes, milfs like the cocky, theyre nice onit :)

SLVR JDM 01-05-2010 02:17 PM

Well, I guess you at least know she puts out :eeps:

joeski3d 01-05-2010 02:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VillanovaGrad (Post 11127351)
:rolleyes:

i cant imagine what a jersey bmw 323i driver's pick up line for a perfect 10 would be...

"babe, i drive a BMW M323i, i just came out of the tanning salon, and i can do the fist pump better than anyone in the world."

Are you really that shallow and superficial? Seriously?








Oh... wait... this is VG we're talking about. OF COURSE you are. How silly of me.

ab1 01-05-2010 02:24 PM

Did it. Married her. Adopted the kid, had another. Happy as hell.

(not typical of common results, but don't count her out just because)

SlickShift 01-05-2010 03:46 PM

I wouldn't at this stage of my life. I'm 21 and really don't wanna deal with kids until I'm set in life.

Elefant 01-05-2010 03:51 PM

just do it man. all kids need a father

palindrome 01-05-2010 03:55 PM

I would go out and possible relationship, but i would move dam slow. I'm 23 now, wouldn't move in with her until 27 earliest. Also there would have to be no baby daddy drama i don't need no third wheel coming around.


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