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yousharenow 05-06-2010 07:57 AM

Your GF get jealous of success?
 
So I'm 23 in a month, Engineer by day, and college student at night. Her and I live in an upper class apartment with my roommate who is never there in a pretty large spread.

But she calls me selfish and says that I am self centered..

Shes 20 in 2 weeks(so shes 19 right now) and is a phlebotomist. What I don't understand is all of her friends are losers, she has 19 year old mother living at her parents house, she takes it upon herself to befriend any loser she can get around and I can't figure out why. Is this because she feels better around them, as opposed to me who has a ZHP parked out back, nice things, high paying job, and is driven?

I dunno..we were out at the boat show looking at ski boats and I had mentioned what qualities I was looking for in a ski boat, and shes telling me that its hard to be around someone that has the ability to sit there and has the luxury of making "man I sure would like that in my boat" claims. I can't tell if she is jealous of my success, or feels demeaned by it. But all of my friends are in their mid-late 20's, college degrees and professional jobs. I always sought out successful people and tried to model certain aspects of my life after that. I asked her the other night if she had ever considered the probability that for the rest of her life, I will probably make more money than her, and is she okay with that being that we are pooling it all together. Well that caused a pissing match dude...just ughhh..but its alot like this..she comes from a broken home, I come from pleasantville. My sister is an Financial analyist for Chase married to an Electrical Engineer, her sister is in pr0n (srsly) So in almost every aspect "my side" has "the upper hand" and I hate it, it sucks beacuse we genuinelly love each other but its hard when at every turn its "oh sharenow has ANOTHER situation/thing that I don't"(ie non-broken family, good job etc)

I dunno I just feel like she resents my success and drive..I work full time and attend school at night, why can't she be supportive? Am I out of line, is there something I can change or is she just gonna be a hater?

So if they hate them let 'dem hate and WATCH THE MONEY PILE UP!

(1) Is she just young and hates someone more successful than her?
(2) Low Self Esteem?
(3) Shes hot

jacques chirac 05-06-2010 08:02 AM

Yo dawgs !!! I'm a successfull killerman.I'm pretty sure I will own a yacht in a few years. I'm dating a loser hottie.What should I do ?

Facepalm@yourself.That's my advice.

March 2010...

mistrzmiasta 05-06-2010 08:03 AM

what do you want us to tell you....

congrats on your success? , which shows your low self esteem as you have the need to go on the internet and brag about your accomplishments in life

Or

if you hate her bullsh!t so much why not just dump the b!tch...i know she's VERY hot....which also shows your low self esteem and self confidence because you feel if you break it off you won't find another VERY hot girl which also suits your needs in the personality dep.

:dunno:

edit: i concur with frenchie over there

Green_Shine 05-06-2010 08:04 AM

wut?

T-MC-G 05-06-2010 08:04 AM

She is just looking for attention...if you want the b^tching to stop either give it to her or drop her...simple

SLVR JDM 05-06-2010 08:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by yousharenow (Post 11707420)
(1) Is she just young and hates someone more successful than her?
(2) Low Self Esteem?
(3) Shes VERY hot, thats half the reason its gotten this far.

Substantiate this, please. Until then, we cannot possibly weigh in on what her issue might be.

jacques chirac 05-06-2010 08:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SLVR JDM (Post 11707442)
Substantiate this, please. Until then, we cannot possibly weigh in on what her issue might be.

:hi: How's LG doing ? you're not too tired from daddyship ???

SLVR JDM 05-06-2010 08:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jacques chirac (Post 11707446)
:hi: How's LG doing ? you're not too tired from daddyship ???

She's doing well! Thanks for asking! I'm tired most of the time now that I'm back to work, but my wife is off for about 4 months. She is a lot more tired than I am, but has a lot more to do like feeding and staying up in the middle of the night.

T-MC-G 05-06-2010 08:12 AM

In for pics of the 19 year old...

mistrzmiasta 05-06-2010 08:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by T-MC-G (Post 11707458)
In for pics of the 19 year old...

in for pics of the 20 year old in 2 weeks (so 19 right now) :rofl:

RHLP3 05-06-2010 08:25 AM

Ditch her.

Rule 1 - Always surround yourself with people who are more successful than you are.

She's an anchor; move on.

BimmerFerret 05-06-2010 08:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RHLP3 (Post 11707484)
Ditch her.

Rule 1 - Always surround yourself with people who are more successful than you are.

She's an anchor; move on.

Werd

13// 05-06-2010 08:30 AM

I wonder, does she have pointy elbows? :hmmm:

So Lowww 05-06-2010 08:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RHLP3 (Post 11707484)
Ditch her.

Rule 1 - Always surround yourself with people who are more successful than you are.

She's an anchor; move on.

that^

yousharenow 05-06-2010 08:44 AM

BAHAHA I just don't take life seriuously, shes one of those super serial ppl...just sux.

t1ts or gtfo ?


That or I'll sell crack amongst all these fantastic keyboard warriors.

<3 how I get on here and post a straight up "what would you doo..cause freedom isn't free" post n ppl are hating.

Keep it up, yall make teh interwebz patrol proud.

yousharenow 05-06-2010 08:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mistrzmiasta (Post 11707430)
what do you want us to tell you....

congrats on your success? , which shows your low self esteem as you have the need to go on the internet and brag about your accomplishments in life

:facepalm:

Swing N' a Miss.


Quote:

Originally Posted by mistrzmiasta (Post 11707430)
Or

if you hate her bullsh!t so much why not just dump the b!tch...i know she's VERY hot....which also shows your low self esteem and self confidence because you feel if you break it off you won't find another VERY hot girl which also suits your needs in the personality dep.

:dunno:

edit: i concur with frenchie over there

Poor ol chap. loving the misdirection, try again plz.

T-MC-G 05-06-2010 08:55 AM

what year is your ZHP?

jacques chirac 05-06-2010 08:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by T-MC-G (Post 11707558)
what year is your ZHP?

2001 :lmao:

yousharenow 05-06-2010 08:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by t-mc-g (Post 11707558)
what year is your zhp?

05. Looks great next to my F150 lol

S2Krazy 05-06-2010 08:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jacques chirac (Post 11707428)
Yo dawgs !!! I'm a successfull killerman.I'm pretty sure I will own a yacht in a few years. I'm dating a loser hottie.What should I do ?

Facepalm@yourself.That's my advice.

March 2010...

what he said.


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