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Mr.Jack 09-20-2012 04:44 PM

Would you?
 
Just wondering, would you date a girl that you know has cheated on somebody? Add a little spice to the question, what if it was you that she cheated with?

Had a bro discussion about it last night at the bar lol

VALMONT 09-20-2012 04:44 PM

once a cheater always a cheater.

CollinsE90 09-20-2012 04:55 PM

If she is willing to cheat on people to have sex with me, why would I need to date her?

I don't care about the act, I care about the mental ability to go through with it.

Hockeyguy02 09-20-2012 05:07 PM

Love bro discussions

SamDoe1 09-20-2012 06:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CollinsE90 (Post 14748930)
If she is willing to cheat on people to have sex with me, why would I need to date her?

I don't care about the act, I care about the mental ability to go through with it.

^This.

Although the thought of once a cheater always a cheater does need to eventually go away. The circumstances of why she cheated need to come out too, could have just been a terrible relationship. That and people do grow up.

DME46 09-20-2012 06:44 PM

Depends on her situation, and what the definition of "cheating" is.

If a girl just kissed another guy while she was dating a douche bag, I can look past it. Anything beyond that... can't turn a ho into a housewife.



I've been the dude girls cheat on their boyfriends with - gotten blowjobs and had sex with girls in relationships. I would never date these girls. As someone mentioned above, if I'm already getting sex... why commit to someone who doesn't value relationships in the first place?

Fatrusty 09-20-2012 07:06 PM

Told my ex to marry the SOB she was cheating with... She did. I also told her not to worry about him cheating on her while on business trips... don't let it worry you one bit...:lmao: Just saw her at my daughters wedding... He looked like he lost his balls and did just what she said... I also told her to go to hell, she did, she moved to Oklahoma!

Never date a cheater... Never!

YGOAMG 09-21-2012 04:52 AM

who cares

selien 09-21-2012 04:56 AM

The cuckold life is great imo especially if u can get her into girls and work your way into 3somes.

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SPDSKTR 09-21-2012 09:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by selien (Post 14750319)
The cuckold life is great imo especially if u can get her into girls and work your way into 3somes.

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So you enjoy having your cock locked away in a chastity cage while your chick goes off and bangs other men and women? :confused:

Ynot 09-22-2012 01:30 AM

Never. They can end the relationship than fock around. Don't do it before the relationship. I could had fock my friends girl but I didn't. I've seen what cheating does to a relationship and family. It takes two to tango. Not worth it.

casino is no lie 09-23-2012 06:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VALMONT (Post 14748891)
once a cheater always a cheater.

Doesn't really hold water when it's someone who cheated at 18 and they're now 28.

That being said, to answer OP's question... I would not stay with a woman who cheated on someone with you. It's one thing if the person cheated once in their past. It's another when it's the second they sleep with you.

Tap it all you want. But I wouldn't commit.

Act of God 09-23-2012 09:11 PM

I just dated a girl for 1.5 years that was engaged to someone else, she never broke it off and actually married the tool even after he found out about us. Don't bother.

Ynot 09-23-2012 10:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Act of God (Post 14756183)
I just dated a girl for 1.5 years that was engaged to someone else, she never broke it off and actually married the tool even after he found out about us. Don't bother.

Those types of girls has mental issues, you should be glad she married him instead of you. There is a great chance she'll sleep around while being with you.

Mr.Jack 09-24-2012 04:43 AM

Goodness. Just checked back in and thread got good.

1TEXM3 09-24-2012 05:01 AM

after she got bloodwork done, yes

Solidjake 09-24-2012 05:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by valmont (Post 14748891)
once a cheater always a cheater.

+1

casino is no lie 09-24-2012 12:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Solidjake (Post 14756847)
+1

Have a bad experience?

SPDSKTR 09-24-2012 01:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by casino is no lie (Post 14757623)
Have a bad experience?

She made him dress up like a French maid and crawl around the room in front of her... guests...

alkemyst 09-25-2012 11:24 AM

IMHO, I don't really base a chick's sexuality based on anyone else she is with but me.

That said, too many relationships today are like psuedo-marriages...no one seems to 'date' first. They just jump into a commited relationship and worse move in together within 2-3 months.


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