If I'm reading this right, you're still in the relationship, correct? If you assume you'll be breaking up, then break up now. Don't wait. Trust me.
When you bring up counseling, I would only recommend this after having broken up and dealing with it yourself. If months go by and you can't move on, get help. There is nothing at all wrong with that.
If you are getting help to try to salvage your relationship, don't do it. If you are dating and you already need counseling, the relationship is not worth saving.
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