I can understand where your parents are coming from, they want whats best for you. My folks are south asian immigrants and they have that "marry an indian or the world ends" mentality.
I noticed one of your options is suprising: #3, give up your education and move in the with girl. WHATEVER you do, do not compromise your education. Dont let a girl ruin your future career potential.
My advice would be just to see her secretly until you can secure a job/housing independently then do whatever you want.