Welcome to e46fanatics! I'm in Mineral Springs which is just about 25 minutes from south Charlotte in Union County. Not to many nice/modded e46's out this way so when I see one I can't help to get all happy and excited. Other than Cars & Coffee there really isn't much in the way of monthly or bi-monthly meets and stuff. Cars & Coffee isn't just BMW's but a whole variety of cars. I've been wanting to get a BMW meet together somewhere in the South Charlote area, but just haven't gotten around to it yet.
On another note, I have a set of OEM sport springs I took off my 02 330i ZSP if anyone wants them.