getting there. SPoke with BMW Canada and a local BMW dealer and got some of the info I required; got the schematic from them, but they sent the connection between an SMG and Selector. I need Auto/Steptronic schematic; got busy yesterday afternoon and never got hold of them to request new info.... Will try again. Also, my buddy @ BMW is having BMW engineering look @ what I'm attempting to do and will assist; so hopefully they'll come back with "connect this to this", if not at least with the schematic i should be able to figure it out.
2009 335i Xdrive