I have done a few events with the SCCA Washington DC region (WDCR). Their events are fairly well run, but they tend to do Summit Point Shenandoah circuit, or maybe Summit Point Main. I have not seen them so farther afield to VIR or NJ Motorsport Park. I am already an SCCA member for auto-x, so it doesn't cost me anything to do trackdays with them, too.
I have done a few days with the Potomac chapter of the Audi Club. They run really good events. Usually they are two day events, and they like to go to VIR. Good quality t-shirts, Saturday night dinner with an auction of sponsor goods, on time, etc.
My brother does a lot of stuff through Trackdaze. I don't think there is any membership involved, they are just a good resource for events. They have events listed for VIR, Summit POint, NJMP, and Road Atlanta on their page right now.
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