If you know she wouldn't like the public thing...and would say 'yes,' then I think he who said this is for her is right.
Maybe ask the winery if they could arrange a private room with a special meal for you guys. Ask if they have any bottles of wine that kind of look like penor?
Perhaps you make a note using naked men in different positions that spell out, "will you marry me?"
Have you Mangofied your car yet?
Thursday, August 6, 8 p.m. The Comedy Cove--595 Morris Ave. Springfield NJ Reservations: 973 376-3840
Sunday, August 30, 8 p.m. Tierney's Tavern, Montclair, NJ
A recent set.