If you know she wouldn't like the public thing...and would say 'yes,' then I think he who said this is for her is right.
Maybe ask the winery if they could arrange a private room with a special meal for you guys. Ask if they have any bottles of wine that kind of look like penor?
Perhaps you make a note using naked men in different positions that spell out, "will you marry me?"
In NJ--Tierney's in Montclair, Sept. 25, 7:30 p.m.
In NYC Sat, Sept. 30, 8 p.m. at Broadway Comedy Club! Sat, Oct. 8, 6 p.m. at Greenwich Village Comedy Club.
Comedy can be a great cheap date!
Mangofy your E46!