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Old 10-04-2012, 09:54 AM   #61
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Originally Posted by redtoesblue View Post

Not really different values, we share almost everything, its just dietary stuff mainly.

I feel there is compatibility on all levels that I have been searching for. No, I did not try to fit her in there, she just naturally checked all of my requirements.

Being with her is effortless and natural, no fights or anything. I love the way she looks, we have an awesome time together, the other stuff is minor to me. Nobody is perfect, but she is perfect for me.
I'm thinking (based just on what you've said, so with very limited perspective) that the religion thing is more important to her than it is to you--not so much in the present, but in the future when you have kids. It sounds like she can overlook your differing religions within your relationship, but has a line drawn in the sand when it comes to eventually having kids someday. You had mentioned a willingness to expose the kids to both faiths, but it sounds like she has reservations about this plan.
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