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Old 10-04-2012, 09:57 AM   #62
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Originally Posted by VaderDave View Post
I'm thinking (based just on what you've said, so with very limited perspective) that the religion thing is more important to her than it is to you--not so much in the present, but in the future when you have kids. It sounds like she can overlook your differing religions within your relationship, but has a line drawn in the sand when it comes to eventually having kids someday. You had mentioned a willingness to expose the kids to both faiths, but it sounds like she has reservations about this plan.
You may be right, however, I would assume a logical discussion would help to come to a decision, not immediately making a concrete unilateral decision and trying to break away. This behavior is what is concerning, since it was all of a sudden and left very little room for discussion.
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