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Old 10-04-2012, 10:16 AM   #64
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Originally Posted by redtoesblue View Post
You may be right, however, I would assume a logical discussion would help to come to a decision, not immediately making a concrete unilateral decision and trying to break away. This behavior is what is concerning, since it was all of a sudden and left very little room for discussion.
What would a logical discussion lead to? Are you willing to forego your religion for her? It doesn't look like she's willing to do that. If that's the case, then it could be that she already did the logical analysis in her head and decided that it was best to break it off before you wound up in a situation where everyone (including kids) gets hurt.

But it could be that I'm projecting my own biases here, because I would never even consider having a serious relationship with someone who didn't share my religious and moral beliefs.
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