THANKS for all the responses!!
Let me try and answer most of the questions...the current owner is not a current member and is only selling it because he does not want a car payment anymore. Its a second car for him. He has done regular oil changes and has documentation for all work done to the car. The only major work is he replaced the thermostat about a month ago.
He didn't lie to me about ownership, it was a mis understanding on my part. (on the current ad, says the correct owners)
The current owner is not a member on here, i am trying to get ahold of the previous owner (that was a member "blown330i) but yeah the current owner is not a member.
umm if i forgot anything please let me know and or ask. I love forums, y'all really are amazing! thanks again!