| While I think it's perfectly normal, I also think this can not be explained to women. It also kinda depend on how often you do it with her.
The easiest way out of this would be:
Repeat again that it's not the same thing as having sex. Maybe try the itch analogy - hey if your head is itching you scratch it. Guy has a boner he rubs it.
Then saying that giving her one of those three is a good idea. (If she has a sense of humour you can present her with a boner and demand a HJ )
EDIT: I wouldn't worry about this being first post. Likely a member here just didn't want to post under his real name
Last edited by lab rat; 11-10-2012 at 10:12 PM.