Based on that exchange, it's a good thing you're in couples therapy. You need it. You guys SUCK at communicating.
No ****. I have pointed this out many times. It does not help that she lies to me a lot for no reason. Shes the type that tells me what I want to hear insted of just telling me the truth.
Quit texting about subjects like this and talk face to face about them instead.
I agree. I tried to end the text before they started but I guess it was eating her up so much she just had to keep on. We have our next therapy appointment monday at 7:00pm tomorrow. I hope something gets accomplised.
She's saying that her perception is that you don't desire her/aren't sexually satisfied by her. Now, either thats true, or its not true but she genuinely thinks its true, or she doesn't really think that and she's saying it just to dig at you. No matter which of those 3 it is, you defending your fapping habits doesn't do a damn bit of good. You need to address her perception, not where your hand goes occasionally.
I'm trying. I had jealous girlfriends in the past but having a girlfriend that is jealous of my hand is new to me.
Lastly, if she's right, and you dont desire to have sex with her, or when you do, you can't orgasm, maybe you should exercise a little hand restraint and see what the impact on your sex life with her is.
It would only take a few weeks of abstaining to find out if it helps, and if it doesnt, there's nothing stopping you from going right back to thrice weekly.
I'm gonna give that a try.
We're also gonna need pics of the table she's talking about. You can't leave us hangin like that.