Alex is right...driveshaft isn't moving in park.
...and not to argue with you, but it's very hard to figure out where a sound is coming from. If it's definitely not under the hood (you should listen with a stethoscope or hose), then the only other things I can think of is fuel pump. There's nothing else moving when you're in park.
Try filling up the car above 1/2 full and see if that quiets the noise down (if you happen to be low on fuel)...
In NJ--Tierney's in Montclair, Sept. 25, 7:30 p.m.
In NYC Sat, Sept. 30, 8 p.m. at Broadway Comedy Club! Sat, Oct. 8, 6 p.m. at Greenwich Village Comedy Club.
Comedy can be a great cheap date!
Mangofy your E46!