OK, my BMW Scanner 1.40 was finally deliveried after waiting a month. I got it all hooked up with the help of a few other posts and immediately went in the phone section. There it listed the bluetooth information with the passcode. I entered that and I still couldn't get the unit ready to connect to the system. But there was an actual "pair" button on my computer screen in the scanner software as well and I clicked on that. Another screen came up and asked to enter 1234567890 on the phone and walla, the phone connected. It now works as it should and I'm able to view my phone directory directly on the radio screen. Hope this helps others.
Current Vehicles in my stable:
2005 BMW 330i - 104K miles
2005 Mazda Tribute s - 99K miles
1998 Ford Taurus SE - 108K miles
1987 Ford Mustang LX 5.0 - 233K miles