Originally Posted by mcr_driver

Sending flowers would be rewarding her for bad actions. If you had a dog and he **** on the carpet would you reward it with a treat? No, you'd rub it's nose in it and teach it a lesson. Talk sure let her know sure but be prepared for the variety of answers she may come at you with. I wish I had came on here a lot sooner with my Ex and avoided a lot of stupid mistakes I made with her that lead me to this point.