UPDATE : went to check on the car today and hook it back up with jumper cables, then i realized that i never checked the fuses under the hood so i checked them and they were all good....so 15 minutes go by and i turn the key....all lights come on, fuel pump turns on and i turn the key....engine turns over and doesnt start.
so i decide to check the fuel nipple again and this time no fuel came out of it. so i turn the key to position 2, fuel pump turn on and i give it another go and same thing. i check the nipple again and no fuel......so it has the be the fuel pump relay right???
i have a half of tank of gas, so im not leaking fuel anywhere
Finally reached 100k.....mods/maintenance list