No worries about the reply...as a fellow fanatic father, families take up time...lots.
Yeah, the front looks about the same as mine, maybe a little higher. But remember that getting the right rear springs will push some of the weight forward and lower it a tad bit. Even if they don't, you still have the option of getting thicker spring pads.
Amen to the comfort. I have had all the same experiences with my Bilstein PSS. Ugh...too much for me and what I do.