I will end your dilemma right now.
The cost of a 6mt swap will never be justified in fuel savings and there is absolutely no harm in driving at 4k rpm for long distances.
If you are so nerveous about revving the engine,then get a 3.23 diff . You dont have to worry about losing low end power because your car really didnt have any to start with
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