The light settings are under LCM-Light Check Module.
Locks, etc are under ZKE, which it sounds like you found.
Some cars have different screens, my 04 M3 Vert looks like this.
Daytime running light US turns on the round lights (not sure exactly what they're called) anytime the key is on. Daytime running light turn sign. turns on the corners when the key is on. I think I'm actually going to disable both of these when I put angel eyes on. I played with some of the other settings but most didn't seem to do anything.
I had to play with the lock settings but set up like this I have all locks locking and unlocking with 1 press, and auto locking at 28 km/h. The 1 touch locking is the settings that are "Entr. aid". The One-touch functions settings let me put the top up and down from the remote.
I may have some extra stuff checked that I don't need but through playing with different settings I've got what I wanted.
I haven't found a way to unlock when turning the car off yet. Not sure it's possible on these cars at this point.