wow, i'm sorry to hear about your recent situation with bimmian. it's amazing how many customers get bad service from one e46fantics.com sponsors. you would think they would be professional and courteous to bmw fanatics.
I've too had problems with bimmian where they gave me a short m3 lips spoiler. luckily for me thats only one part!!! Bimmian is so sketch that you cant get a hold of them through the phone. I pm'ed "bimmian" here on this website and they tried to offer me 10% off my next purchase. I told them to suck it and told them that I wouldnt want to buy another product from them. I took off the spoiler and threw it away.
LOL, im still bitter about my situation.