Do you mean you re-wired to use the relay? Then i suspect that your LCM/ECU is looking for a bulb which is no longer there. Prior to your remote mod, your angel eyes were wired direct to the parkers which i assume functioned in place of your parker bulb. No that it is not there, you get bulb out error.
I recently had the same issue... i've ditched the relay and wired it myself without relay.