Anyone ever Been in A Situation Like this?

PLAZAMAN · 12-10-2009, 06:15 PM

So you went on 1-2 dates with a girl , didnt click @ first, became friends later on.... hung out talk, no sex @ dis point.... over da course of a few months but eventually she'll sleep with you? Is it likely or if it was gonna happen, it would happen already right? im debating this with someone now lol

me personally, i think its dead.

Kris.R · 12-10-2009, 06:16 PM

Really depends on how much of a friend the girl see's in you bro.

SurreyF1 · 12-10-2009, 06:17 PM

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Originally Posted by PLAZAMAN

So you went on 1-2 dates with a girl , didnt click @ first, became friends later on.... hung out talk, no sex @ dis point.... over da course of a few months but eventually she'll sleep with you? Is it likely or if it was gonna happen, it would happen already right? im debating this with someone now lol

conflict

Green_Shine · 12-13-2009, 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by PLAZAMAN

So you went on 1-2 dates with a girl , didnt click @ first, became friends later on.... hung out talk, no sex @ dis point.... over da course of a few months but eventually she'll sleep with you? Is it likely or if it was gonna happen, it would happen already right? im debating this with someone now lol

me personally, i think its dead.

Wast.Of.Time. Months waiting on vag is months wasted.

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conflict

kushy · 12-13-2009, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Green_Shine

Wast.Of.Time. Months waiting on vag is months wasted.

Who says you can't get any with someone else while waiting for this girl? She can't get mad you for f*cking other women when she sees the both you as just friends. Plus if she sees you hooking up with other (hotter) girls at the club or elsewhere she will most likely get jealous if there are any feelings there. It will make her think "what does he have for that girl to be with him?". She'll reconsider who you are.

If you like her a lot, keep trying. It doesn't mean you can't get any vertical sausage wallet.

E46Msex · 12-13-2009, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by kushy

Who says you can't get any with someone else while waiting for this girl? She can't get mad you for f*cking other women when she sees the both you as just friends. Plus if she sees you hooking up with other (hotter) girls at the club or elsewhere she will most likely get jealous if there are any feelings there. It will make her think "what does he have for that girl to be with him?". She'll reconsider who you are.

If you like her a lot, keep trying. It doesn't mean you can't get any vertical sausage wallet.

Well said !

Sherweeeny · 12-14-2009, 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by kushy

Who says you can't get any with someone else while waiting for this girl? She can't get mad you for f*cking other women when she sees the both you as just friends. Plus if she sees you hooking up with other (hotter) girls at the club or elsewhere she will most likely get jealous if there are any feelings there. It will make her think "what does he have for that girl to be with him?". She'll reconsider who you are.

If you like her a lot, keep trying. It doesn't mean you can't get any vertical sausage wallet.

this guys on the money. this is probably due to his car being hot.

pagliachi · 12-10-2009, 08:29 PM

It sounds like your in the friend zone...

derek0606 · 12-10-2009, 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by pagliachi

It sounds like your in the friend zone...

+1 havent you watched the movie Just Friends?

kushy · 12-10-2009, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by pagliachi

It sounds like your in the friend zone...

Friends with benefits FTW

kushy · 12-10-2009, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by PLAZAMAN

So you went on 1-2 dates with a girl , didnt click @ first, became friends later on.... hung out talk, no sex @ dis point.... over da course of a few months but eventually she'll sleep with you? Is it likely or if it was gonna happen, it would happen already right? im debating this with someone now lol

me personally, i think its dead.

Don't be so quick to decide. Same thing happened with me, except i thought she was really attractive so i kept trying. 4 months later (June 09) we hooked up for the first time and since then it's been on and off sex (mostly on). We're not dating, but it's pretty much guaranteed sex whenever we have the chance. If this girl is a girl that suits you and on top of that she is good looking, keep trying but remember to keep you're options open at the same time! Good luck man.

PLAZAMAN · 12-11-2009, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by kushy

Don't be so quick to decide. Same thing happened with me, except i thought she was really attractive so i kept trying. 4 months later (June 09) we hooked up for the first time and since then it's been on and off sex (mostly on). We're not dating, but it's pretty much guaranteed sex whenever we have the chance. If this girl is a girl that suits you and on top of that she is good looking, keep trying but remember to keep you're options open at the same time! Good luck man.

yea i could get something like that going here, wouldnt be too bad. We chill on average 1-2 times a month, message each other often ..

SydeSho · 12-11-2009, 05:33 AM

Ignore her and when she is around, treat her like shiv. It's the only way out of the Friend Zone. It will make her think twice about who you are and break that calm comfortable feeling she has around you, that feeling of friendship and friendship only. Give her sometime, let a couple of your buddies hit it, and be there for the rebound booty call.

derek0606 · 12-11-2009, 05:55 AM

This is the part where you take her out with you and all your buddies. Let one of them bang her. At least your friends will pat you on the back

Gotta be a team player

JoeVert · 12-11-2009, 08:58 AM

if dis gurl is da ho den you might get da poon

217Bimmer · 12-11-2009, 12:33 PM

anything is possible. each situation is different. what didn't click? what kind of situations do you see each other in now? sounds like she ended it and you still have feelings. ignoring her and moving on has two benefits. 1) you might find someone else, and 2) it is the only way to draw her to you again if it's going to happen.

SLVR JDM · 12-11-2009, 12:42 PM

The uglier she is, the better chance you have in the friend zone.

calialx1 · 12-13-2009, 03:42 PM

Same situation here, I have given up tho. Its just easier to get it elsewhere

calialx1 · 12-13-2009, 04:50 PM

^^^ +1 my logic exactly

12-10-2009, 06:15 PM	#1
PLAZAMAN Registered User Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: NYC Posts: 1,621 My Ride: FourPointEightEyeS View My Garage	Anyone ever Been in A Situation Like this? So you went on 1-2 dates with a girl , didnt click @ first, became friends later on.... hung out talk, no sex @ dis point.... over da course of a few months but eventually she'll sleep with you? Is it likely or if it was gonna happen, it would happen already right? im debating this with someone now lol me personally, i think its dead. __________________

12-10-2009, 06:16 PM	#2
Kris.R Registered User Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Nor Cal, USA Posts: 3,587 My Ride: 2012 Dodge Charger View My Garage	Really depends on how much of a friend the girl see's in you bro. __________________ - Kris - *"America will never be destroyed from the outside. If we falter and lose our freedoms, it will be because we destroyed ourselves."* -Abraham Lincoln-

12-11-2009, 05:33 AM	#13
SydeSho Registered User Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Central PA Posts: 60 My Ride: 325i, S4 View My Garage	Ignore her and when she is around, treat her like shiv. It's the only way out of the Friend Zone. It will make her think twice about who you are and break that calm comfortable feeling she has around you, that feeling of friendship and friendship only. Give her sometime, let a couple of your buddies hit it, and be there for the rebound booty call. __________________ Back in Black.

12-11-2009, 05:55 AM	#14
derek0606 Registered User Join Date: May 2006 Location: Houston Posts: 930 My Ride: 01 330CI Orient View My Garage	This is the part where you take her out with you and all your buddies. Let one of them bang her. At least your friends will pat you on the back Gotta be a team player __________________ FS: Custom Stainless Dual Exhaust FS: 1 Front Eibach Pro... FS: MISC Lighting for Preface Sedan FS: MISC Lighting for Preface Coupe

12-11-2009, 08:58 AM	#15
JoeVert Registered User Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Denver Posts: 742 My Ride: 135i View My Garage	if dis gurl is da ho den you might get da poon __________________ -JoeVert

12-10-2009, 08:29 PM	#8
pagliachi Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Montreal Posts: 52 My Ride: 330ci View My Garage	It sounds like your in the friend zone...

12-11-2009, 12:33 PM	#16
217Bimmer Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Location: IL Posts: 126 My Ride: 2001 BMW 330i View My Garage	anything is possible. each situation is different. what didn't click? what kind of situations do you see each other in now? sounds like she ended it and you still have feelings. ignoring her and moving on has two benefits. 1) you might find someone else, and 2) it is the only way to draw her to you again if it's going to happen.

12-11-2009, 12:42 PM	#17
SLVR JDM Registered User Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Work Posts: 1,495 My Ride: reclining rear seats View My Garage	The uglier she is, the better chance you have in the friend zone. __________________ Removed

12-13-2009, 03:42 PM	#18
calialx1 Registered User Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: lost in the twisties of the Bay Area, CA Posts: 253 My Ride: FL 330i, 3000GT View My Garage	Same situation here, I have given up tho. Its just easier to get it elsewhere __________________

12-13-2009, 04:50 PM	#19
calialx1 Registered User Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: lost in the twisties of the Bay Area, CA Posts: 253 My Ride: FL 330i, 3000GT View My Garage	^^^ +1 my logic exactly __________________

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