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Old 01-05-2010, 02:56 PM   #1
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Would you go out with a 10 if she had a kid

This is pretty much directed at the 25 and under crowd.




This is the girl




You always run into her at the library and at starbucks. Whenever you see each other you guys smile but it never goes past that.



skip forward about two weeks and you randomly see her on the street. You're thinking Im just gonna smile and nod as usual but something makes you blurt out "hi" and ask how shes doing. Shes having a horrible day and tells you all about it.

You can tell she likes you because of her eye contact, the he way touches your arm and plays with her hair when talks to you.....you don't want to leave but you're in a hurry so you say you gotta go and suggest dinner tonight, she accepts.





So the date is going well, better then expected. In the back of your mind you're wondering why shes even with your ass. She says she wondered if you'd ever ask her out. You're on top of the world right now then all of a sudden she mentions her 2 year old.




Apparently she ran away with her bf and moved here but as soon as the baby was born he disappeared leaving her as a single mom. She managed to get her life together. Shes working part time as a waitress and attending university at night but life still gets hard.


Would you still continue to date her?
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Old 01-05-2010, 02:57 PM   #2
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Great looking girl. For me (at that age) a kid would be a deal breaker. If we were both 40ish, kids would be completely different.
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Old 01-05-2010, 10:07 PM   #3
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Great looking girl. For me (at that age) a kid would be a deal breaker. If we were both 40ish, kids would be completely different.
i would go ahead and date her, but don't shoplift the pooty. single mom...be nice.
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Old 01-05-2010, 02:58 PM   #4
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hell yeah... but she smokes... thats kind of a turn off
imho moms should not smoke.. its not good values
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hell yeah... but she smokes... thats kind of a turn offimho moms should not smoke.. its not good values
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She is good looking though.

I would not let a kid get in the way.
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Yep. This is a road I've traveled down a few times. They tend to be more commitment oriented and looking for a long term situation. This can be good... or bad depending on what you're looking for.
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Yep. This is a road I've traveled down a few times. They tend to be more commitment oriented and looking for a long term situation. This can be good... or bad depending on what you're looking for.


i cant imagine what a jersey bmw 323i driver's pick up line for a perfect 10 would be...

"babe, i drive a BMW M323i, i just came out of the tanning salon, and i can do the fist pump better than anyone in the world."
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i cant imagine what a jersey bmw 323i driver's pick up line for a perfect 10 would be...

"babe, i drive a BMW M323i, i just came out of the tanning salon, and i can do the fist pump better than anyone in the world."
Are you really that shallow and superficial? Seriously?








Oh... wait... this is VG we're talking about. OF COURSE you are. How silly of me.
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not if she's looking for a daddy for her kid

my girlfriend has a kid but he's about to turn 18 so no big deal to me.
(i'm old)
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lol Ignore the cig.


I was just thinking about this the other day. I personally wouldn't but If i was in my mid/late 30s then It wouldn't be an issue.
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early 20s no, but just wait till you get to late 20s early 30s, (28 here) it seems like atleast 1 out of every 2 girls i meet has a kid. not a deal breaker or anything just have to know what you want out of the situation.
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If she's a keeper, hell yes. But I'm well over 25. If you're looking for a fling/booty call, hell no. I presume she's had enough of the "love em and leave em" type since she got dumped after a baby. That's some cold sh!t right there.
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Go out with? Sure.

Dip & Wiggle? Sure.

Commit long term to raising someone else's screaming, brat-ass sack of failed spermicide? No, I'll pass.

No one under 25 needs that kind of hassel.
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i would probably go out with her, but it wouldn't be too serious. pump it and dump it.
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i would probably go out with her, but it wouldn't be too serious. pump it and dump it.
THATS RIGHT MY FRIEND...HIT IT AND QUIT IT!
GET IT?
HIT IT AND QUIT IT.
UNDERSTAND?

SHE'S NOT LOOKING FOR YOU TO BE A STUD, RIGHT ABOUT NOW, SHE WOULDN'T GIVE A DOG POO IF YOU WERE A HEADLESS HORSEMAN...SHE WANTS YOU TO TAKE CARE OF THAT BABY!
SO THINK WITH YOUR DIPSTICK!!!!!!!!
HIT IT AND QUIT IT!
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Is that the girl from Degrassi?
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Well, I guess you at least know she puts out
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Did it. Married her. Adopted the kid, had another. Happy as hell.

(not typical of common results, but don't count her out just because)
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I wouldn't at this stage of my life. I'm 21 and really don't wanna deal with kids until I'm set in life.
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