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Old 10-26-2009, 10:48 AM   #1
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Letting your GF move in with you...

How long would you usually wait before you let her move in with you? and did you regret it afterwards? lol
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Shawna moved in with me after we had been together after about 2 years. It's kinda smart because it will let you know how they really are (and visa versa) so you know if you want to really marry them.
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for me it was 4 month, that was almost 7 years ago, now? see sig!
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This is one of those questions that's really hard to answer. It really depends on how well you know her and if you could really spend time with her every single day.
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After marriage. Seriously, enjoy living alone while you can, lol
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for me it was 4 month, that was almost 7 years ago, now? see sig!
I feel like your wedding counter doesn't ever change. lol
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I feel like your wedding counter doesn't ever change. lol
i thought he was trying to show me lady gaga
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Old 10-26-2009, 10:58 AM   #10
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I've done this before. I strongly suggest that if you are going to shack up you need to start on neutral territory. This means you both move into a suitable place so there is even footing when it comes to divvying up the living space.

This will help ease on any feelings of animosity, superiority, ownership and resentment. It's also great for making all the financial responsibilities of the property transparent so there are no $$$ surprises. $$$ is usually the argument base for relationships not working out. I suggest you proceed with caution and a realistic sense of what this move implies.
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not me, i think **** it's moving fast!
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I think it all depends on how well you get along with her. One thing to consider.. while you will save money on rent (assuming ou split it), you will inevitably spend more out of pocket as you will get dinner out more often, spend more on gifts for her,e tc... Just something to keep in mind stan

I have lived with my gf for two years now and love it
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bad idea all around....
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I think it all depends on how well you get along with her. One thing to consider.. while you will save money on rent (assuming ou split it), you will inevitably spend more out of pocket as you will get dinner out more often, spend more on gifts for her,e tc... Just something to keep in mind stan

I have lived with my gf for two years now and love it
SHiiiiiiittttt I eat at home more and spend less on gifts. You are doing it all backwards Chase
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SHiiiiiiittttt I eat at home more and spend less on gifts. You are doing it all backwards Chase
I agree. Whenever I'm with my gf for more than a few days in a row we are always cooking together.
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stan, you have a girlfriend? why have i not heard of this being?
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stan, you have a girlfriend? why have i not heard of this being?
no i dont, i am talking to someone at the moment though.

only asking because i had a discussion with a few friends last night about whether or not its a good idea to let your gf move in with you and how long to wait, just wanted to get some input on here.

wanna go tot he driving range in winter park? lol
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Make sure she's willing to share the responsibilities of living together (financially, cleaning, sharing space, etc.) It's fun at 1st because the experience is "new," but when it wears off it'll show people's true colors. You have nowhere to run away to. you can't exactly say "im going home" when you fight. If you enjoy doing things your way and having your own space, i'd advise against living together. If you're ready to share EVERYTHING, go for it!
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SHiiiiiiittttt I eat at home more and spend less on gifts. You are doing it all backwards Chase
fair enough. I guess I try to follow to closely in my idol's footsteps...
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