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Old 03-23-2010, 05:52 PM   #1
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How many guys would you be uncomfortable with your gf sleeping with in the past?

I have been with my gf almost one year and she knows my past but I refuse to ask her what her number is. I have a magic number in my head and I'm scared if she's over it I'd look at her differently. I know I'm a hypocrite because if she slept with as many people as I have I'd be grossed out but it really doesn't change anything right? As long as she's disease free and in to me I guess I shouldn't care.
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Old 03-23-2010, 05:57 PM   #2
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the average for women is about 6 partners, men is 10, of course everyone on this forum has ****ed like a million super models, but i would say if she is around the average its ok.


my personal thoughts on it if she is clean and doesnt cheat it doesnt matter.
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Old 03-23-2010, 06:02 PM   #3
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the average for women is about 6 partners, men is 10, of course everyone on this forum has ****ed like a million super models, but i would say if she is around the average its ok.


my personal thoughts on it if she is clean and doesnt cheat it doesnt matter.
That's how I feel. I know she's clean and doesn't cheat. Everything is perfect between us but it's kind of in the back of my mind. I need to stop thinking about it because I know the people from my past are meaningless now.
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Old 03-23-2010, 06:05 PM   #4
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definitely not trying to insult you solly.... but once i started dating older girls, that whole worry went away

i find it childish, immature, and a waste of time to even spend 1 second thinking about something that is so irrelevant... i'm not trying to bash on you, but one day you are going to wake up and say "wow i really don't give a fvck at all...."

bottom line, she is with you now... if she had a little fun, ya you know you can't blame her and if she got it out of her system and all that shiit doesn't mean anything to her, then you are golden

like you said, if she is clean and disease free, you are in good shape my friend
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Old 03-23-2010, 06:05 PM   #5
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I don't bring it up, PERIOD. It puts strain on the relationship and at least with my last one, it became a big deal that she kept bringing up(insecurities? idk). Better left to your imagination dude.
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Old 03-23-2010, 06:43 PM   #6
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definitely not trying to insult you solly.... but once i started dating older girls, that whole worry went away

i find it childish, immature, and a waste of time to even spend 1 second thinking about something that is so irrelevant... i'm not trying to bash on you, but one day you are going to wake up and say "wow i really don't give a fvck at all...."

bottom line, she is with you now... if she had a little fun, ya you know you can't blame her and if she got it out of her system and all that shiit doesn't mean anything to her, then you are golden

like you said, if she is clean and disease free, you are in good shape my friend
no offense taken. I know she doesn't care about my past and I really don't care about hers because like you said, she's with me now.
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if the ***** is tight, and you aren't sporting genital worts on your lip from eating her regularly.....get over it, everybody has had a past, you don't want to know and she'll never tell you the truth....so move on and enjoy it NOW!
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Old 03-23-2010, 06:54 PM   #8
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Don't really care because

1- I've been around
2- I've slept with girls that I know have been around
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Old 03-23-2010, 07:04 PM   #9
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Don't really care because

1- I've been around
2- I've slept with girls that I know have been around
You guys are definitely making me realize how insignificant this is lol.
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Old 03-23-2010, 09:54 PM   #10
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dont dig up her past if you cant handle the truth lol! for me, the number is 3-5....depending on her age...if she's older, 5...if she's younger, 3
but if her pvssy still has a good grip, i dont care lolz
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Old 03-23-2010, 10:56 PM   #11
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Old 03-23-2010, 11:55 PM   #12
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What matters is not vaginal sex, it's anal sex. If you plow her trench then you might wanna know how many times it was plowed before. Because girls only let special guys from the back door. If you're the first, congrats she is an ass virgin and you should not worry about anything.
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Old 03-24-2010, 12:38 AM   #13
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no offense taken. I know she doesn't care about my past and I really don't care about hers because like you said, she's with me now.


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What matters is not vaginal sex, it's anal sex. If you plow her trench then you might wanna know how many times it was plowed before. Because girls only let special guys from the back door. If you're the first, congrats she is an ass virgin and you should not worry about anything.
whoa whoa whoa


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If her sexual skill level is up there, then she's either had a good teacher or she's had her body treated like an amusement park. The anal comment .... I kinda agree with that.
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Old 03-24-2010, 01:30 AM   #15
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Leave the past in the past. Honestly, if your relationship is good... why ruin it with these thoughts constantly running through your mind?

But I feel you man, I've always had the "history" talk with my past girlfriends and my current one. It honestly does nothing to help the relationship... just pounds your thoughts from time to time. You can't change whats done, just be happy you have her now.
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Old 03-24-2010, 08:47 AM   #16
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Depends on how the encounters occurred. If she was in a relationship with each guy then it wouldn't concern me. If there were 10 one nighters, it would be a different story. It would take some investigating and prodding to find out, so it is probably better to just assume the best and forget the past. Unless it starts to burn like fire while urinating.

BTW did you tell her about the time you made out with your sister while wearing a lucha libre mask?
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Already said but should be said again.

Dude, get over it, it doesn't matter. Don't make big deals of small stuff, ever.
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I need to stop thinking about it because I know the people from my past are meaningless now.
You've said the most important detail in this thread yourself. You "care" about it because of something that has happened in the past or something someone has done to you. You're current gf is not anyone from your past, and I know it's hard, but you can't expect her to end up doing something someone else has done. That's something I have learned with my current relationship. You seem to have your head straight Solly
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That's how I feel. I know she's clean and doesn't cheat. Everything is perfect between us but it's kind of in the back of my mind. I need to stop thinking about it because I know the people from my past are meaningless now.
How you know she doesn't cheat?
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well , if they were all hamburger chefs, would it still matter dyllos?

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