How many guys would you be uncomfortable with your gf sleeping with in the past?

Originally Posted by makecopies

What if she was still friends with one of the guys?
How would you guys feel about that? Even if it was years ago but they still hang out from time to time?

I wouldn't be okay with it.

As a dude, if I bone a chick once I expect to bone her again if we are talking/hanging out, regardless if she has a boyfriend or not.

I'd expect no different from another dude.

If they were at a party together or something, I'd be a little more at ease about it rather than them hanging out 1 on 1.

^^ I feel the same way about it. But this chick is telling me I'm wrong. She just asked me do I want her to break it off with the dude. I really just want to tell her no you guys stay friends and just leave her alone.

Originally Posted by Dreamliner330

Honestly, I dont want a chick thats been with very many guys, if any.

u want a virgin?

seriously those are the ones that will want to bang other guys when they hit their 30s

Originally Posted by makecopies

^^ I feel the same way about it. But this chick is telling me I'm wrong. She just asked me do I want her to break it off with the dude. I really just want to tell her no you guys stay friends and just leave her alone.

Honestly... if they have a sexual history together, then there is always a chance they may have another fling down the line.

She shouldn't have to ask you if you want her to break it off - she should WANT to break it off on her own because she respects you and only has eyes for you. Why is some douche bag she boned a couple of years still significant in her life, anyway?

Tell her like a man - its either him or you, you can't have both. She will pick you if she cares about you.

^Agreed. No hanging around guys that she's banged. If she insists, then move on.

Originally Posted by Born Again

op dont be insecure - it doesn't matter if she's with u

op? come on man you can call me solly haha

Originally Posted by makecopies

What if she was still friends with one of the guys?
How would you guys feel about that? Even if it was years ago but they still hang out from time to time?

Not just the two of them but in a group I guess it's ok. My gf has been around a few of my female friends that I slept with and had no idea.

Originally Posted by Born Again

u want a virgin?

seriously those are the ones that will want to bang other guys when they hit their 30s

Exactly. I can't tell you guys how many of my guy friends had girls that slept with 1-2 guys break their hearts. These girls get curious and eventually act on it. I'd rather know that my gf and I both experienced other people and know that we're a good match. Wow this is all making me feel so much better. I love you guys

I just thought of this thread

This girl I know but never banged has been around, and her close friends know about it, we don't care whatever. So she gets with this new dude (friend of a friend I think, never met him) and they've been together for what now, 3-4 months, and he finally got to know about her past last week. Let's just say I heard he was freaking out and told her this was disgusting, blabla. I was laughing about it .. My girl friend felt he was over reacting.

Probably because he realized his girl has been with more dudes than he's been with girls ... that ought to be hard on the ego haha

BTW even though she's been around, I'd still hit it, because she's hot, and I heard crazzzzzzy things about her n:

Originally Posted by makecopies

^^ I feel the same way about it. But this chick is telling me I'm wrong. She just asked me do I want her to break it off with the dude. I really just want to tell her no you guys stay friends and just leave her alone.

Originally Posted by DME46

Honestly... if they have a sexual history together, then there is always a chance they may have another fling down the line.

She shouldn't have to ask you if you want her to break it off - she should WANT to break it off on her own because she respects you and only has eyes for you. Why is some douche bag she boned a couple of years still significant in her life, anyway?

Tell her like a man - its either him or you, you can't have both. She will pick you if she cares about you.

She broke off being friends with the guy. She said if it bothers me she thinks its best.
But now I feel bad about it. I'm not trying to be a dictator is her life.

Originally Posted by makecopies

She broke off being friends with the guy. She said if it bothers me she thinks its best.
But now I feel bad about it. I'm not trying to be a dictator is her life.

f*ck that. If it bothers you, tell her straight up. Be happy she listened to you (or did she really?).

Originally Posted by makecopies

She broke off being friends with the guy. She said if it bothers me she thinks its best.
But now I feel bad about it. I'm not trying to be a dictator is her life.

You're not a dictator in her life. She does not HAVE to listen to you. She could have just walked away. It is a good thing she respected your feelings on the situation, and chose to let the other guy go.

Just don't let things like this get carried away. She has to have SOME male friends... but previous flings should be a no no and she should have already known this.

Originally Posted by Alayle

BTW even though she's been around, I'd still hit it, because she's hot, and I heard crazzzzzzy things about her n:

go on...

Originally Posted by DylloS

op? come on man you can call me solly haha



Not just the two of them but in a group I guess it's ok. My gf has been around a few of my female friends that I slept with and had no idea.



Exactly. I can't tell you guys how many of my guy friends had girls that slept with 1-2 guys break their hearts. These girls get curious and eventually act on it. I'd rather know that my gf and I both experienced other people and know that we're a good match. Wow this is all making me feel so much better. I love you guys

lol sometimes i forget who i'm replying 2

anyways - cougars are in great numbers

It's been said before, but who cares? She's with you now for whatever reason, what happened in the past is just that.

Originally Posted by jailonacs99

You sucked 36 dicks!?!!?

Try not to suck any dick on your way through the parking lot!!


Clerks FTW

it completely depends on age.

for me ...

age - 16 = max.

one per year seems reasonable over age 16.

if your **** is the last inside her, then who cares who or how many people shes slept with?

Worst thing to do is think about ex's haha...Ive dated some girls who had ex con's as boyfriends with the chics name tattoos on their heart and ****...

I just don't think about it, if they are in love with you or they are dating you why does it matter.

When I was like 15 I did think about that kind of stuff..Now im 22 I just don't worry haha all girls who look half decent have defiantly had a few guys in bed...

my buddy told me this yesterday....dont ask your gf: what have your exes done to you....instead, ask: what have you done with your exes

I was sleeping with a girl who for sure has been with at least 15-20 guys and shes 22, personally i didn't care but she was a f*ck friend not girlfriend

for a girlfriend she has to have been around a bit so she smashes like a pro, if not you have to deal with bloody BJ's

All I know is I'm gonna lie about my number to my next GF hahaha