i got cheated on

Originally Posted by jaewonder

No. I think she may have caught something, so I definitely don't want any part of that. I was clean when I was with her and suddenly she has a rash two days after her incident?

woah, that is disgusting. karma is a b!tch

Originally Posted by T0n3dawgg

Wow man, your ex sounds like my ex. She did the exact same thing. Was insecure and stuff, those type of girls need attention from guys in order to make themselves feel better about themselves. The crave for attention. Find yourself a rebound girl.

Yes. Attention *****s, who want to make their bf's their little b*tch.

how'd you find out?

funny story (now), found out a girl I was dating cheated on me when I noticed a giant hickey on her inner thigh ... like whoa up there ...
she tried to tell me that her doctor had lanced a mole, but then I reminded her that her mole was on the other thigh.

I laugh about it now, but it sucked then. Spend time with your friends, family, etc. And remember, no gf means more money for the car

ewww to the rash lol - once a cheater always a cheater. never go back.

Originally Posted by jaewonder

FUUUUUUUUUUUUU

I'm sorry man. Girlfriend of over 4 years cheated on me too. It is brutal.

Ah man, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you go out and smash one hundred clams/pink tacos.

Being cheated on is one of my biggest fears. I have never been cheated on as far as I know... but if that day comes I will become the biggest assh0le to every woman I encounter/date.


Never trust a b1tch.

Sorry to hear bro. The best way to deal with this is to delete everything related to her and move forward. Its usually the insecure/attention *****s we need to stay away from unless its a hit and run. I know its hard but look at the bright side. Now you have more time and money for friends and car!

Originally Posted by HellFish

I'm sorry man. Girlfriend of over 4 years cheated on me too. It is brutal.

5 and a half years in total, 3 living together, i try and look at the positive of the situation and treat it as a learning experience to not make the same mistakes...it helps at least for me to move on from the whole experience...

iunno the more i look at it, it always seems like there are two kinds of people in relationships those that think for themselves and those that think for the good of the couple...

but honestly the more i reflect and over analyze i see that i'm drawing useless conclusions sometimes

Originally Posted by kosnosferatu

not helping haha

omg please say it isn't. I've always loved that pic

Originally Posted by DME46

Being cheated on is one of my biggest fears. I have never been cheated on as far as I know... but if that day comes I will become the biggest assh0le to every woman I encounter/date.

Never trust a b1tch.

This isn't a bad thing, most females like being treated like ****.

Agree with your last line.

dude jae... sorry to hear bro. cheer up, you have your whole life ahead of you now. fresh college grad and with a job... you know she just ****ed up on the best thing she ever had.

Yeah, I know it's not meant to be, but I'm having a hard time moving on. I keep asking questions as to what went wrong and why things resulted in certain ways. I feel like a woman when I have these moments. Ugh.

Originally Posted by jaewonder

Yeah, I know it's not meant to be, but I'm having a hard time moving on. I keep asking questions as to what went wrong and why things resulted in certain ways. I feel like a woman when I have these moments. Ugh.

just remember, it's not your fault.

Anyone who's been cheated on knows the feeling, but there's nothing you could have done to prevent it. No amount of attention, etc would have changed it. You'll get over it, though

Cut all ties and burn all bridges. It's the hardest thing to do, but look what she's putting you through for one night of fun. Not worth any effort on your part IMO.

That sucks man I feel for ya.

You wil be ok bro. **** happens. Just remember one day u will look back at this and not care and u will be happy with someone else ... Kepp yoour head high

Originally Posted by jaewonder

She has MAJOR trust and insecurity issues. She was always assuming that I'd cheat on her, yet in the end it was her.

thats because, people many times, judge others for what they are inside ..
this is a portuguese saying.. don´t know if it makes much sense in english..

Originally Posted by HEAVYLIFT

thats because, people many times, judge others for what they are inside ..
this is a portuguese saying.. don´t know if it makes much sense in english..

Makes sense. What's ridiculous is that she had all our mutual friends de-friend me on facebook. Shows me that they weren't real friends to begin with, but damn...how immature can someone get?

Originally Posted by jaewonder

Makes sense. What's ridiculous is that she had all our mutual friends de-friend me on facebook. Shows me that they weren't real friends to begin with, but damn...how immature can someone get?

You don't want to be part of her life anyways, they are doing you a favor. You just go about your life, make the best of it. Enjoy your life, her friends are watching. Be successful, marry a hot wife, sometimes things like this motivates people to become the best they can be.