What would you prefer

A- Your girl is nice, social, guys talk to her and she talks back in a "friendly" manner which is usually taken wrongly by guys so they proceed on hitting on her. You know the girl loves you and only you, but there are guys out there (we all have been that guy) that tries to come off as a friend and move things further... but you know she informs you of everything, and when someone does ask her out- she'll refuse, it's just the guy "pressuring" her in a friendly way making her feel uncomfortable to say no.

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B- Your girl has a attitude. Any guy that approaches her, she ignores him. If they try to ask her for help, she'll spot out that hes clearly trying to hit on her so she declines to help, unless its really necessary. I'm sure everyone has faced this situation, that girl, the b*tch. Would you rather want your girl to be the kind that guys would die to talk to, or the girl guys have as freinds, having hopes they can possibly move further. (Not all the guys know shes taken)

I take girl A

Girl B has an attitude which is something I've never found attractive.

Originally Posted by SLVR JDM

I take girl A

Girl B has an attitude which is something I've never found attractive.

This guy knows what he's talking about!

Originally Posted by SLVR JDM

I take girl A

Girl B has an attitude which is something I've never found attractive.

Attitude not towards you but towards other guys. I don't think any guy finds it attractive- so making your girl seem less- attractive to other guys

Dated both.

Girl A is also usually naive beyond sensibility in most other areas of life as well. Not just dealing with guys. Just a huge pain in the ass, IMO. I don't have enough patience to deal with that long term.

Girl B is closer to what I prefer but she's usually clingy, possessive, and secretly insecure as well. And surprise-surprise! She usually expects her man to behave the same way, that is: completely ignore other girls... which is shockingly difficult. Get caught making small talk and guess who's not talking on the car ride home.

I still choose Girl B though. I like a smart, alert, sensible woman with a strong personality. I know how to keep a b*tchy girl in check and I find the challenge entertaining. It keeps me interested.

I'll choose (..and have chosen) B. She's not naive in situations where the man is clearly hitting on her, but she's not necessarily a b|tch either. She's just very direct! No games.......! My girl has guy friends (..as I have girl friends). It's a balancing act; re-affirming the relationship to quell issues of insecurity. It's up to her to know her boundaries though.

P.S. One must also keep in mind that an attractive woman will attract men. There is no way to avoid it. You better be secure with yourself and your relationship.

i kinda like girl b. she has to have some character. not just one in a group of friends.

Originally Posted by M3Inline6

I'll choose (..and have chosen) B. She's not naive in situations where the man is clearly hitting on her, but she's not necessarily a b|tch either. She's just very direct! No games.......! My girl has guy friends (..as I have girl friends). It's a balancing act; re-affirming the relationship to quell issues of insecurity. It's up to her to know her boundaries though.

P.S. One must also keep in mind that an attractive woman will attract men. There is no way to avoid it. You better be secure with yourself and your relationship.

Well it doesn't have to be clear, theres always a way around it. Lets say someone wrote on her fb wall "Hey gorgeous, I miss you!!! how have you been?!!!!" would your girl ignore it or reply back with something proper like "I know it's been a while, I'm good how have you been" (which can spark the guy thinking the girl is interested)

Girl B.

I like the *****y ones.

Those are the ones that intimidate the **** out of dudes, they won't even approach..

Originally Posted by zikhkd

Well it doesn't have to be clear, theres always a way around it. Lets say someone wrote on her fb wall "Hey gorgeous, I miss you!!! how have you been?!!!!" would your girl ignore it or reply back with something proper like "I know it's been a while, I'm good how have you been" (which can spark the guy thinking the girl is interested)

It depends on who made the comment, but 9 times out of 10, my girl would delete the comment and let the guy know that she didn't feel comfortable receiving statements like that.

Girl A. Otherwise I would be a hypocrite. During relationships, I have always been friendly, and even flirtatious with other women, but at the end of the day there was only one person I wanted to go home with, only one person I wanted to wake up beside the next morning, and only one person who would ever tempt me physically. I figured if I could do it while remaining completely faithful and honest, why shouldn't my partner be capable of the same?

I've made several friends that way. I wouldn't think very highly of someone if they came across as rude. Be flattered, and just let the person know you've got a significant other. What's the big deal? Why be a *****?

A.

Originally Posted by M3Inline6

It depends on who made the comment, but 9 times out of 10, my girl would delete the comment and let the guy know that she didn't feel comfortable receiving statements like that.

+1, my wife has done that

and girl A. When we're out together, I have no problems with other guys hitting on (or trying to) my wife. It happens. She has very clear boudaries, though, and knows what is appropriate behaivor and what is inappropriate, and has no problem exercising that line. I remember at a club one night I was sitting with a friend of mine and she and his gf were dancing together when two other dudes started dancing with them. Nothing too close, and it was pretty comical. After a couple minutes, they came and got us, and it was sex on the dancefloor

She actually gets a little bit upset if she introduces me to a friend of hers that doesn't flirt with me a little. To her, it means her friend doesn't find me interesting/attractive/whatever.

I choose girl B because I have a temper. If a guy gets too close and she doesnt care but declines and he still pursues, ill probably snap and attack him. lol.