Ex Girlfriend

Just want someone else's view on this. Split up with the ex back in June and it was a nasty break up so much her parents and friends now hate me but two sides to every story. Anyway we were friends then stopped and kinda got back being friends again but its usually her contacting me by text etc when something bugs her etc or she see's something that is associated with my work. She has texted me at night when she has been working asking for my advice etc or point of view. Last night she texted me at 04.58 telling me she drank more than she should have and saying night night to me. I ignored the text and today she texted me saying she did not remember sending it and asking was I mad cause I did not reply and mentioned she was in bits etc. she texted me about her night who she was with and where she went etc with her girlfriends and that some bloke was chatting her up but had no interest etc or as she said "my heads not in that place" at the moment. Just what is her game as she is very fragile due to an eating disorder and blamed me when we were together for making it worse but since we parted she went of and got help again but has since relapsed and nothing to do with me and told me and asked me was I angry and upset with her?. Bottom line is what is her game or what does she want as I don't have time for mind or guessing games anymore.

Cheers

Runaway---find a new mod to work on and forget her---your bmw will never let you down---

Females due this all the time. The relationship ends and they still want to be "friends." I always believed it was just a way to keep you on the back burner. I'm assuming she is single, wait till she starts going out with some one (she will stop talking to you). If i were you I would either go along with it if i had nothing better to do and was bored, or I would just ignore her if it annoyed me. Don't burn your bridges though, you never know when you might need to get some.

Originally Posted by calialx1

Don't burn your bridges though, you never know when you might need to get some.

Sometimes getting pvssy isn't worth the drama. He notes his ex's psychological problems, so this can be on of those cases.

Ignore her. I had a chick who didn't stop texting me for SIX MONTHS (I responded to none of them). It may take a while but be persistent in ignoring her and she will eventually move on.

Originally Posted by mrheat

runaway---find a new mod to work on and forget her---your bmw will never let you down---

+1

Originally Posted by MRHEAT

Runaway---find a new mod to work on and forget her---your bmw will never let you down---

until your cooling system blows up, your window regulators break, your subframe tears, and your vanos fails.

But no, other than that, your BMW will never let you down...

OP, stay away from her. Not worth the drama is what it sounds like.

Cheers think you may be right but she knows I know her only to well etc. She is a bit imature for her age (29) and does not think alot of the time before she acts, she really wants someone to look after her but does not take advice and is easily led. Yeah ignoring her texts etc annoys her alright. Anyway got a house call in the morning at 2am when my phone rang from new chick so all's good. Will leave ex be and live a better life me thinks

Ignore.

Originally Posted by irishconnection

Just want someone else's view on this. Split up with the ex back in June and it was a nasty break up so much her parents and friends now hate me but two sides to every story. Anyway we were friends then stopped and kinda got back being friends again but its usually her contacting me by text etc when something bugs her etc or she see's something that is associated with my work. She has texted me at night when she has been working asking for my advice etc or point of view. Last night she texted me at 04.58 telling me she drank more than she should have and saying night night to me. I ignored the text and today she texted me saying she did not remember sending it and asking was I mad cause I did not reply and mentioned she was in bits etc. she texted me about her night who she was with and where she went etc with her girlfriends and that some bloke was chatting her up
Cheers

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makes sense...

Gawd dude...bisches be running wild...I'm amazed how crazy they all regularly are.

I want to hear the story about why you guys split up. Sounds like you fuucked her over but used the "two sides to every story" thing in your defense.

Originally Posted by CollinsE90

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makes sense...

ahahah dude I did the exact same thing.

Originally Posted by DylloS

I want to hear the story about why you guys split up. Sounds like you fuucked her over but used the "two sides to every story" thing in your defense.




ahahah dude I did the exact same thing.

She was to move into a house to share with me and I paid for deposit and first months rent and she changed her mind and then said she slept with her ex as well but it meant nothing. I got so fed up with this as I had an ex wife and my kids to deal with and her **** did not help but it was all about her Life and nobody else. I made a comment that Bulimics give good head and her mates saw it and told her ( Me bad and regret it but was really pissed off at the time as had alot of pressure on me in work and ex-wife and kids etc)She likes attention and reads to much into things and as she has told me is a people pleaser and wants to be popular and our whole relationship had nothing but pressure from her friends and parents about her hooking up with a seperated bloke who also had another kid by another woman as well. I am not perfect and never claimed to be. Her Mum kept telling her I have no income to give her the life she should have etc what happened to equal rights and earn your own money. I have alot more income than she has or ever will have even with all the money I am paying out. Ok Rant Over

Originally Posted by irishconnection

She was to move into a house to share with me and I paid for deposit and first months rent and she changed her mind and then said she slept with her ex as well but it meant nothing. I got so fed up with this as I had an ex wife and my kids to deal with and her **** did not help but it was all about her Life and nobody else. I made a comment that Bulimics give good head and her mates saw it and told her ( Me bad and regret it but was really pissed off at the time as had alot of pressure on me in work and ex-wife and kids etc)She likes attention and reads to much into things and as she has told me is a people pleaser and wants to be popular and our whole relationship had nothing but pressure from her friends and parents about her hooking up with a seperated bloke who also had another kid by another woman as well. I am not perfect and never claimed to be. Her Mum kept telling her I have no income to give her the life she should have etc what happened to equal rights and earn your own money. I have alot more income than she has or ever will have even with all the money I am paying out. Ok Rant Over

Do not get back with her. Guys sleep with people because it means nothing. Girls sleep with people because they are emotionally attached to them

Originally Posted by DylloS

Do not get back with her. Guys sleep with people because it means nothing. Girls sleep with people because they are emotionally attached to them

Yup I agree and would not get back with her ever just trying to figure out what the ****s she is up to or trying to say to me as alot of my mates say the same thing, give her one but nothing else I have moved on and for the better and even the ex wife has commented on my happy mood lately

you told her "bulimics give good head" and then say she read too much into it?

Originally Posted by NOVAbimmer

you told her "bulimics give good head" and then say she read too much into it?

I did not say it to her but made the comment and her friends told her. She always claimed and said how good she was good at giving and liked giving head to me and others told her she was good at it etc. She read too much into other things which were nothing sexual related but things about my ex wife and what people were telling her and that I would get back with my ex etc. Its over between her and me and my original question is why this contact from her as there is no way with her parents and friends who rule her life that we would ever get back and I have no interest in going through all that crap again as it caused me soo much stress. Whats her game as I have no interest in playing it but would like to know the rules