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Old 11-12-2010, 10:24 PM   #1
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Got screwed by user J Cruz (BEWARE********BEWARE)

J Cruz sold me a fake Gruppe M TI exhaust and claimed it was genuine!

The sale prize was $800.00, which I paypal'ed to him minutes after getting confirmation from J Cruz that this is a genuine Gruppe M he is selling.
Waited a few days and received the exhaust well packaged and shipped on time. All good, so far.
Opened the box and it was immediately apparent that this is not a genuine piece. The first thing the stood out was the look.
It didn't even look like titanium!
Second, no authentication plate.
Throw the thing on the scale and the scale jumps to 22lbs straight away.
So I start to inspect the exhaust further and notice a big dent in one of the cans. There's little rocks stuck in between the exhaust tips too.

At this point I'm pretty pissed, so the next day I take it to a fab shop and they confirm to me that it is NOT titanium.

So I write a polite email addressing my concerns about the authenticity of the exhaust and this is what I get back.

This is his reply:

"With all honesty, there are so much confusion on the web as to a
genuine Gruppe M from (Japan) and one distributed for (North America). I
have yet to physically hold an actual Gruppe M from Japan
, I've only come
across the version I purchased and sold to you."

Shady, shady indeed! If he has not held an actual Gruppe M exhaust, why would he sell a Gruppe M exhaust as genuine. Does he not understand the meaning of the word genuine?

So I contact J Cruz and suggest he give me a partial refund or refund my money in exchange for the exhaust.

So here is what I get back from him:

"I will simply refund your money.

Once received, I will inspect the package making sure the exhaust is
exactly how I sent it to you. Once confirmed, I will issue you a PayPal in
the amount you paid for the exhaust

Are you F-ing kidding me? I sent him money no questions asked. He screws me over, and then has the nerve to ask me to send him the exhaust back without my money first.

So obviously I write him back saying that I wont let him screw me twice. He has NO credibility at this point, and I have plenty. It's pretty simple. I'll send him the exhaust if he sends my money first!

Another email comes back to me where he quotes me.
It goes:

"Your statement clearly says: 1) I return the exhaust to you and you
refund the full $800.-
(Your statement is clear and concise: you will return
the exhaust, and I will refund your money. NOT, I refund the money and then
you will ship the exhaust.) Doesn't work this way. Period."

What the hell??? Since when does "and" become "and then"???

At this point I'm really tired of dealing with this guy. He simply does not understand the concept of a fair deal. I emailed him back again pretty much explaining why I can not trust him with my money and the exhaust at the same time. He committed fraud and therefore I can not trust him now................... fair enough, right?

Anyways, I emailed him, called him, texted him and have not heard back from him for a week now.:thumbsdown:

So there it is............ Just warning anyone who's thinking of dealing or buying anything from J Cruz in the future.

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Old 11-12-2010, 10:38 PM   #2
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Wow, sorry to hear man. I hate scanners that prey on people. Hope you get it worked out.

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Old 11-12-2010, 10:51 PM   #3
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As with ANY online purchase, you only receive a refund AFTER returning the product to the vendor.

Sorry to hear you did not get what you expected, but it seems you are clearly in the wrong about the refund process.
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Old 11-12-2010, 11:16 PM   #4
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I totally feel your pain BUT you should've confirmed that it is in fact a genuine piece (either by asking for detailed pictures or even a video) before you made the purchase.

Hope you get it all worked out.
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Old 11-13-2010, 12:35 AM   #5
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Sorry to hear this, and I'm sure this will make people avoid this user but really it was your fault for not getting detailed pics and the authentication plate. Also, thats pretty much how refunds go.

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Old 11-13-2010, 12:44 AM   #6
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It's a shame this type of thing is almost standard business practice... So it's the buyers fault because he didn't get 30 pictures of an exhaust system.. People are unbelievable, it would be your fault if you didn't ask whether it was genuine but you did. File a claim with pay pal, get your money back in full, keep it, sell it, or it your feeling generous send it back, people just aren't good for their word. Good luck
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Old 11-13-2010, 01:08 AM   #7
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Slight misunderstanding...I'd buy from that guy!
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Old 11-13-2010, 02:10 AM   #8
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When you sent the money through Paypal did you add a note to what you were buying??? If you did you can file a claim. Once you file the claim they will put the money on hold and you can send it back to him. GET A TRACKING NUMBER when you ship it. Once he receives it give paypal the tracking number and they will refund you your money. Make sure to file a claim before you send it back to him and remember to get a tracking number. Only thing your losing is money for shipping. Good luck.

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Old 11-13-2010, 02:29 AM   #9
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Old 11-13-2010, 02:37 AM   #10
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Slight misunderstanding...I'd buy from that guy!
:thumbdwn: You are so dumb, fo real. This guy scammed him and you're supporting him? Here's an idea, GTFO! :idea: is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2010, 04:25 AM   #11
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Sorry for your lost bro at least you got something i paid someone on here 1600 for a Gruppe-M years back an the chump send me a box of coat hangers, i called paypal an those losers said that since the guy sent me a box an i didn't opened it in front of the UPS guy that i could had put the junk in the box myself an was trying to get money from the guy. I hate scammers
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Old 11-13-2010, 04:31 AM   #12
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Coat hangers = LOL. Don't hate scammers, but hate those who protect them.
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Old 11-13-2010, 07:02 AM   #13
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Where does he live? Group beat down session?
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Old 11-13-2010, 07:35 AM   #14
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What a prick, I hope he gives you the money back
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Old 11-13-2010, 09:33 AM   #15
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Since you paid through paypal, file a claim, since the item was not as claimed to be. Of course you will have to send back, but make sure you get a tracking number. Paypal will want all communications between you and vendor. If you have pictures, that will even work also. I have done a few claims with paypal for same stuff before. I always got my money back. But don't delay, paypal has a certain amount of days after you receive item to file a claim. Good luck, you'll eventually get your money back with paypal.

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Old 11-13-2010, 10:52 AM   #16
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Yeah, I have bought from a lot of people on e-bay and so far I have had excellent dealings with people. Sometimes you get something that you may not have "thought" what you were getting. Most of the time you have to read the descriptions very well and never assume anything. If something does not state exactly what you are expecting then I would ask and have it verified. Only one time did I have an actual legit beef with something I bought used. It was described in excellent condition, and it had photos as well. Only thing you could not tell was that the locking point was torn away from the angle of the photos and there were some very small holes in the material which did not show up in the phots - far from being excellent as described. Anyway after much e-mailing and hunting this person down as to where to call for him, I was able to return the item and get a refund.

But like most people here stated, I had to trust the person again....which was a big one for me......and send the item with signature requested to make sure the f'er got it, then follow up with several phone calls to get my money. In the end it turned out good, but was still out the shipping back, or at least half the shipping back in my case.

Some tips for you in the future, if on ebay, always check the sellers ratings, I'll still buy from someone with bad remarks given that they sell like a thousand items a month with one or two complaints - will always have that for one reason or another. Never assume something is OEM or brand unless you have something to compare it to even if someone slaps a sticker on it. Never assume a picture that shows something that is supposed to be glass can actually be plastic unless it states it is glass (example I see all the time is fog lights where they call them out as oem 1. they are not and 2. they are plastic lens instead of glass), watch for wording like 'OEM fitment' or 'OEM style/quality' or several other variables in which case they are not OEM. If you get something shipped wrong or broken from the start, always take plenty of pictures of it from every possible angle, include the box it damaged, include something with the date if possible and detail everything wrong "BEFORE" you ship it back so no one can complain that the damage happened in your possession or on the way back to them. If expensive, always insure, and always ask for a signed delivery no matter what the price so you know they actually got the item so they can not claim that yeah, UPS delivered it but left it on the door step and someone must have walked off with it.

Remember, a lot of people are good intentioned and maybe the ding or damage to them is perfectably acceptable under normal wear and tear but totally unexceptable to you. In my case above the item came from a salvage so to them it probably was in excellent condition given the facts but to me was un usable. Did they misrepresent, probably not. Were they familiar with what that part was supposed to look like, again probably not. Opinions vary as to grade and quality.
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