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Old 12-12-2010, 08:35 PM   #1
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question for u guys!

Alright quick background on the situation. Met a girl halloween time. We both messed up in the beginning w/ to much texting/contact the first week. Quit talking. Just started talking again last week. Hung out went to bars/movies thursday night. We went out for a friends birthday friday night. She had talked about taking things a little slower this time so i didn't expect her to stay the night friday night. She did and cuddled but that was it. Didn't wanna move to quick. She is a super shy "good" girl... Still talking till today.
I met a guy(x) thru my buddy who introduced me to the girl as well. I wouldnt' consider this guy(x) a friend but merey jus someone i know so its not a "bros b4 hoes" situation for lack of a better term haha.
Come to find out hes been hitting on her since about the time i Fed up the first time. they went on a couple dates thats it. I was looking for some ideas from you guys on some next moves to try move her away from him...
talked to her this morning and she said she will text/call later. Considering bringing up the question "wat are you looking for" or somethin along those lines as well? or bad idea?
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Old 12-12-2010, 08:43 PM   #2
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girls like guys who are dicks, but what do i know i went to a school where it was all sexy rich girls who loved ****in lax bros and boating clothes but secretly wanted to be abused haha...i heard some decent advice once on hitting on a girl (and dont flame me i didnt make this up haha) i heard to treat a girl as if your talking to your younger/annoying little sister.....i guess the thoght process here is to not put the p**sy on a pedestal so to say haha....in my experience it works to an extent but after a while they get fed up with it so i guess girls like guys who are dicks to start off with haha
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Old 12-12-2010, 08:58 PM   #3
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yea thats how i got her to try again once we started talking. I was pretty much a dick about everything and then she said lets go do something...
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Old 12-13-2010, 03:39 AM   #4
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next time you hang out be like haha yea last nite our friend introduced me to guy (x). What a creeper I never met such a ***** lol

But on a serious note, just play it out it seems. If it doesnt work out then it doesnt work out but if she stayed over then at this point you do have the upper hand.
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Old 12-13-2010, 10:42 AM   #5
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yea true. I'm just gonna wait a few days then give her a call and plan something this weekend. go from there probably
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Old 12-13-2010, 10:46 AM   #6
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Girls want what they cant have....they always want a challenge...thats why you gotta be a dick and play hard to get sometimes
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Old 12-13-2010, 12:11 PM   #7
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next time you hang out be like haha yea last nite our friend introduced me to guy (x). What a creeper I never met such a ***** lol

But on a serious note, just play it out it seems. If it doesnt work out then it doesnt work out but if she stayed over then at this point you do have the upper hand.
never talk sh1t about some other guy. You'll just look jealous.

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Girls want what they cant have....they always want a challenge...thats why you gotta be a dick and play hard to get sometimes
exactly. Break off plans, forget to text back etc. Seem more important and popular than your really are without bragging lol.
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Old 12-13-2010, 11:57 PM   #8
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yea trying the forget to call thing tonight. talked to her earlier and we were going to talk tonight. she asked me to call. Im not gonna. supposed to be the same place as her sat night for a xmas party... im not gonna contact her till then. see what happens btw now and then as far as her txts to me...
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yea trying the forget to call thing tonight. talked to her earlier and we were going to talk tonight. she asked me to call. Im not gonna. supposed to be the same place as her sat night for a xmas party... im not gonna contact her till then. see what happens btw now and then as far as her txts to me...
lol I don't know about this man. If she wanted you to call, either call and talk to her or text her saying you are tied up and can't talk tonight. You don't need to play games to get this girl man. Saturday is a long ways away too... if shes hot, there are a million guys a day trying to pick her up... don't get left out in the cold.
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Old 12-15-2010, 11:16 AM   #10
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actually seemed to work? talked to her a lil over txt yesterday morning. she never mentioned it but did mention hanging out soon. Its finals for both of us right now. I wont be back in her area till friday anyways. prob will ask her to do somethin friday night today.
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yea trying the forget to call thing tonight. talked to her earlier and we were going to talk tonight. she asked me to call. Im not gonna. supposed to be the same place as her sat night for a xmas party... im not gonna contact her till then. see what happens btw now and then as far as her txts to me...
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actually seemed to work? talked to her a lil over txt yesterday morning. she never mentioned it but did mention hanging out soon. Its finals for both of us right now. I wont be back in her area till friday anyways. prob will ask her to do somethin friday night today.
you're lucky this worked out. To go almost a week without speaking to someone you're interested is very risky. A day or two is ok but to do another 4-5 days would make it seem like you just don't care at all.
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you're lucky this worked out. To go almost a week without speaking to someone you're interested is very risky. A day or two is ok but to do another 4-5 days would make it seem like you just don't care at all.
yeah man, count yourself and incredibly lucky. A week is way too long and it'll be interesting to see how things play out. Again, there are a million guys waiting in line for her, especially if you two are in college
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Old 12-15-2010, 07:45 PM   #13
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no i didn't wait an entire week. she made contact after a day and a half...
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