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Old 02-02-2011, 11:54 PM   #1
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Need relationship advice

Not that we even have a relationship, but I leave this girl ive been hanging out with a voicemail seeing if she wants to kick it.

Few minutes later I get a text from a Laguna Beach number:
*homeboy and homegirl are obviously covering names*

"This is homegirl's older brother. Stop calling her or I'll call the cops on you. She said no."

So I send back:

"Threatening me with calling the cops is not intimidating- I've done nothing wrong. If homegirl does not want to see or hear from me anymore, all she has to do is say so, which she hasn't."

Then I get this from her cell number:

"I do not want to see or talk to you any more. *I hope this is clear."

This totally doesn't sound like her, so I run a reverse phone lookup on the number that was supposed to be her brother. Turns out it's her boss, lol.
So I send him:

"Homeboy- your deception was obvious. I'm sorry I called homegirl at work. Have a good day!"

I get this back:

"She texted you telling her to stop contacting her. I will go with her to the police if you don't stop. She said no. Go away."

I send back "I don't believe that was her. Sorry! She's welcome to call me and tell me in person."

Well- I get a call from her. Very stiff, very awkward, Lots of talking in the background. "I do not want you to contact me anymore."

So I'm like "Alright, bye".


So I'm trying to figure out WTF.

Her twitter says she's drunk as of an hour after the conversation.

She wished me happy birthday yesterday on my facebook wall.

What the heck??
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Old 02-02-2011, 11:57 PM   #2
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I am proposing opening up a Paypal fund for OP. The funds will directly be used in purchasing a farm so that OP can grow some balls.
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Old 02-02-2011, 11:58 PM   #3
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Just walk away, she isnt being help captive if thats what you think. Just drunk and willing to do what she hasnt wanted to do which is tell you to leave her alone.
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Old 02-03-2011, 12:06 AM   #7
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Wasn't thinking held captive, was thinking she didn't turn her phone off at work and either:

A: Her boss is having her mess with me as punishment.
B: she lied and said I was a stalker or something, the boss has a big brother complex, takes her lie too far and makes her tell me to leave her alone thinking he's all good Samaritan.

I am really surprised if she really doesn't want to hear from me. She uh, happens to like my balls the way they are.
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Old 02-03-2011, 12:09 AM   #8
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we have a forum for this kind of ****
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Old 02-03-2011, 12:09 AM   #9
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just stop talking to her and she will talk to you when she can and explain everything. (if she still wants to)
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Old 02-03-2011, 12:11 AM   #10
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I've never met a b!tch worth this much trouble...Please tell me wtf you are doing?
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She wrote happy bday on your fb wall yesterday, thats def a clear signal shes very interested in you. I mean, who actually remembers someones bday nowadays.

You're special, you got this. don't get your hopes down, keep fighting... even if the cops are involved, you have actual proof she expressed interest by writing on your wall.

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OP is in an awkward situation. Awkward because he doesn't realize he's not wanted anymore.
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She's ****ing the boss who doesn't want to share. She tells you to leave her alone so she can proceed to do what she's been doing, which is getting dicked in hopes of getting a better salary. Scandalous and not worth it. Find a new *** to row.
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Not too much trouble. 5 texts, a reverse phone lookup, 5 minutes contemplating, and 1 minute posting on here. 15 minutes to figure out where the f this came from? Doesn't seem excessive to me.

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You're special, you got this. don't get your hopes down, keep fighting... even if the cops are involved, you have actual proof she expressed interest by writing on your wall.

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Thanks... I think. I mean, alot of people were writing on my wall that day, but yeah, she could have ignored it.
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Sounds like she gave up and started drinking. You should too.
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Wasn't thinking held captive, was thinking she didn't turn her phone off and either:

A: Is having her mess with me as punishment.
B: she lied and said I was a stalker or something, the boss has a big brother complex, takes her lie too far and makes her tell me to leave her alone thinking he's all good Samaritan.

I am really surprised if she really doesn't want to hear from me. She uh, happens to like my balls the way they are.
Dude, at first I was messing with you, but it really seems you need it broken down.

1. She's not your girlfriend/fiance/wife
2. You got a text saying don't contact her
3. She told you not to contact her with her own words
4. You're thinking it's a game and won't lay off the girl.
5. You seem like obsessed with this girl, which isn't healthy.

I'm gonna go out on a ledge and say stop talking to her since she doesn't want it. I not sure, but that's my shot in the dark.
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lmao at the comments hahah

Just leave her alone dude. If she wants, shell come back and youll bang.. If not theres a lots of p0rn websites lol
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