fuuck girls

Originally Posted by 0mega9

I love that...
Although, there are great pieces of asses everywhere. It's like they say, all it matters is how they use it; she could look and sound great, but all of that would be a waste if she just a cold fish with only two positions in the menu...

I call those "dead starfish."

Meh, most likely going to break up with my gf next week. Short texts, no calls, wtf. Whatever.

Originally Posted by Solidjake

Meh, most likely going to break up with my gf next week. Short texts, no calls, wtf. Whatever.

Fuuck her bro. It's actually nice being single and you'll notice Soo much more money in your pockets.

Yea, past week and a half I feel like I have no gf. I'll give her two days and see how she responds to me not texting her. After that goodbye. I can use the money I was using for a hotel room in atlantic city for a new fuel pump lol

Originally Posted by Solidjake

Yea, past week and a half I feel like I have no gf. I'll give her two days and see how she responds to me not texting her. After that goodbye. I can use the money I was using for a hotel room in atlantic city for a new fuel pump lol

at e46fanatics, the car is the girlfriend. the girl lets you down, who cares just go for a cruise in the e46

Originally Posted by DME46

I got belligerently drunk last night.

Found out my girl was getting ready to go to an ABC party (anything but clothes) through her roommate's instagram and seeing my girlfriend's outfit. I flipped shiit.

Girlfriend felt guilty, didn't go.

She has somewhat cut me off emotionally since she left for college, so to show her my frustration I made myself unavailable for a few days (didn't wait around to skype with her before she started pregaming with her friends, started running more to occupy my time, going to bed earlier, ect,) and she gets all upset about it saying I don't care anymore.

The ABC party thing put me over the edge. I didn't even care what she was wearing (bra, panties, covered with duct tape and saran wrap) or that she was going to a rush party. It was the way I had to find out (12 am through an instagram post while I was hammered at this point) and the fact that we had talked earlier and she didn't make any mention of it while she was at Target with one of her floormates. She mentioned getting slime and a gift for me for bar stool, and I said "Oh, what's the slime for, a theme party tonight or something?" She said no... didn't mention the REAL theme party she was planning on going to.

It was just annoying, I told her to just be more honest and considerate next time. I told her I can't tell her to NOT go to parties or what to wear, but I would appreciate her at least knowing my opinions/concerns about certain things.

I was in a similar situation with my ex girlfriend (freshman year of college) and my girl now actually wants this to work, while my ex could really care less about our relationship and was more concerned about making friends and partying.

She even showed a picture of her outfit to her mom this morning and her mom agreed it was a cool outfit/idea but no really fair to be parading around in something like that while you're in a relationship. I love this girl more than anything. She just needs to understand boundaries and to just be open with me. Shiit, she doesn't let me go to strip clubs because she says its inappropriate... and I don't say a word about it. So practice what you preach.

Cut your losses. Based on this alone, I can almost guarantee you're sitting on a ticking time bomb of a relationship. This time she ended up not going to the party because she felt bad.. she felt bad because you saw the pic and called her. She will want to go to future parties like this (especially when her girlfriends start calling you a "loser" because you "want her to stay lonely and by herself all locked up")... when that happens, she will just ensure not to have pictures taken and put on instagram so that you don't see them and no fight is had... that results in her sneaking around.. that results in her getting hammered, getting hit on, and hooking up.

I would REALLLLLLY be careful here brother.

Originally Posted by Solidjake

Yea, past week and a half I feel like I have no gf. I'll give her two days and see how she responds to me not texting her. After that goodbye. I can use the money I was using for a hotel room in atlantic city for a new fuel pump lol

If you feel like you have no gf, it'll be easier to get over her or easier breaking up. Good ol e46, the car that never stops needing lol

I think I called this in the thread you posted about her. I hate to say I told you so; but I did!

In short; here's why it will fail.

1. She has NO IDEA where she's going or what she wants. She's too young.
2. She's in an environment that you aren't.
3. She's surrounded by nothing but influences that will suck her into behavior you don't want her in.
4. You've given her pretty much everything; so why would she not scope out some fresh?
5. Girls in college act like guys in college; what did you do in college?
6. She's cut you off emotionally and she's not going to let you back in. It just doesn't happen like that.



Cut her loose; and do it in a way that she knows you're the one doing it; not her. Let her get fvcked and chucked by a couple of guys and see what it's really about. Do not hang around as a friend.


It sucks to be in this spot; but from what it sounds like; you'll have an easy time finding someone else no problem.

Originally Posted by speedcrazy1532

I think I called this in the thread you posted about her. I hate to say I told you so; but I did!

In short; here's why it will fail.

1. She has NO IDEA where she's going or what she wants. She's too young.
2. She's in an environment that you aren't.
3. She's surrounded by nothing but influences that will suck her into behavior you don't want her in.
4. You've given her pretty much everything; so why would she not scope out some fresh?
5. Girls in college act like guys in college; what did you do in college?
6. She's cut you off emotionally and she's not going to let you back in. It just doesn't happen like that.



Cut her loose; and do it in a way that she knows you're the one doing it; not her. Let her get fvcked and chucked by a couple of guys and see what it's really about. Do not hang around as a friend.


It sucks to be in this spot; but from what it sounds like; you'll have an easy time finding someone else no problem.

This.

I'm going with the flow. Hanging with my boys taking trips to NYC at 2 am and not getting home til 12 pm. Just living my life and if it works out with my girl, beautiful.

Id take my e46 and leave at least i know it wont get driven by some one else and have cooling issues and bearings going bad

Originally Posted by DME46

I'm going with the flow. Hanging with my boys taking trips to NYC at 2 am and not getting home til 12 pm. Just living my life and if it works out with my girl, beautiful.

Eh, you say that now but if you love her you're going to suffer. You'd be better off doing those things without her.

Originally Posted by speedcrazy1532

Eh, you say that now but if you love her you're going to suffer. You'd be better off doing those things without her.

Going to spend the weekend with her tonight.

Its been 3 weeks since we've since each other, I'll post back by Monday.

Originally Posted by DME46

I got belligerently drunk last night.

Found out my girl was getting ready to go to an ABC party (anything but clothes) through her roommate's instagram and seeing my girlfriend's outfit. I flipped shiit.

Girlfriend felt guilty, didn't go.

She has somewhat cut me off emotionally since she left for college, so to show her my frustration I made myself unavailable for a few days (didn't wait around to skype with her before she started pregaming with her friends, started running more to occupy my time, going to bed earlier, ect,) and she gets all upset about it saying I don't care anymore.

The ABC party thing put me over the edge. I didn't even care what she was wearing (bra, panties, covered with duct tape and saran wrap) or that she was going to a rush party. It was the way I had to find out (12 am through an instagram post while I was hammered at this point) and the fact that we had talked earlier and she didn't make any mention of it while she was at Target with one of her floormates. She mentioned getting slime and a gift for me for bar stool, and I said "Oh, what's the slime for, a theme party tonight or something?" She said no... didn't mention the REAL theme party she was planning on going to.

It was just annoying, I told her to just be more honest and considerate next time. I told her I can't tell her to NOT go to parties or what to wear, but I would appreciate her at least knowing my opinions/concerns about certain things.

I was in a similar situation with my ex girlfriend (freshman year of college) and my girl now actually wants this to work, while my ex could really care less about our relationship and was more concerned about making friends and partying.

She even showed a picture of her outfit to her mom this morning and her mom agreed it was a cool outfit/idea but no really fair to be parading around in something like that while you're in a relationship. I love this girl more than anything. She just needs to understand boundaries and to just be open with me. Shiit, she doesn't let me go to strip clubs because she says its inappropriate... and I don't say a word about it. So practice what you preach.

Dude why so insecure? If she cheats on you then you should be thankful her true colors showed. If she says oh I was drunk then tell her to give you a hall pass and not do again if she takes the relationship seriously otherwise you're out the door. she doesn't like that then better off single then with bad company. It just shows she's not taking you or the relationship seriously. simple as that.

To me it sounded like she just wanted some time of her own with her own friends. girls are also human beings. However, she wasn't taking you or the relationship seriously at that point in time.

Bro she's 18 and a freshman in college. No matter how much she likes you, in the back of her mind she's worried you guys aren't going to work out and she will have wasted her college years. She young and immature and not sure of what she wants.

IMO, dead that **** fast.