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Old 11-11-2012, 03:54 AM   #21
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Old 11-11-2012, 05:07 AM   #22
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Old 11-11-2012, 05:32 AM   #23
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Old 11-11-2012, 09:38 AM   #24
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While I think it's perfectly normal, I also think this can not be explained to women. It also kinda depend on how often you do it with her.
The easiest way out of this would be:
Repeat again that it's not the same thing as having sex. Maybe try the itch analogy - hey if your head is itching you scratch it. Guy has a boner he rubs it.
Then saying that giving her one of those three is a good idea. (If she has a sense of humour you can present her with a boner and demand a HJ )
I did not realize this. I'm very liberal and dated very open minded women most of my life and could talk with them very openly about sex. Her reaction to this seemed more like something I would get from a girl who was much younger.

EDIT: I wouldn't worry about this being first post. Likely a member here just didn't want to post under his real name
Oh no. I just picked some random web site that i figured would have a bunch of random men on it. lol

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pics of her for reference please.
I aint doing that again.

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Your girl sounds like an idiot, i feel you why you dont want to fk her.
I do want to **** her. I love her very much. One of the reason we are in counseling is because 90% of the time that we have been living here (about a year) she has been sleeping on the couch for reasons she nor I can explain. She also has a child which makes non bedroom sex more difficult. Did i mention she is bipolar?

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This is why you can't always be honest to them, they always see things with a different perspective
I hate lying, then lying some more to cover up past lies. I have been down that road. I end up not being able to keep my lies straight. But I think you are correct in this case. A little lie here and there to keep this kind or drama out of my life would be OK.

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Go fvck your gf before someone else does. Ghey thread.
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What no GIF? you have never been one to disappoint.

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This gotta be a joke.. Class of Nov 2012 and this is a 1st post?
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Based on that exchange, it's a good thing you're in couples therapy. You need it. You guys SUCK at communicating.
No ****. I have pointed this out many times. It does not help that she lies to me a lot for no reason. Shes the type that tells me what I want to hear insted of just telling me the truth.

Quit texting about subjects like this and talk face to face about them instead.
I agree. I tried to end the text before they started but I guess it was eating her up so much she just had to keep on. We have our next therapy appointment monday at 7:00pm tomorrow. I hope something gets accomplised.

She's saying that her perception is that you don't desire her/aren't sexually satisfied by her. Now, either thats true, or its not true but she genuinely thinks its true, or she doesn't really think that and she's saying it just to dig at you. No matter which of those 3 it is, you defending your fapping habits doesn't do a damn bit of good. You need to address her perception, not where your hand goes occasionally.
I'm trying. I had jealous girlfriends in the past but having a girlfriend that is jealous of my hand is new to me.

Lastly, if she's right, and you dont desire to have sex with her, or when you do, you can't orgasm, maybe you should exercise a little hand restraint and see what the impact on your sex life with her is. It would only take a few weeks of abstaining to find out if it helps, and if it doesnt, there's nothing stopping you from going right back to thrice weekly.
I'm gonna give that a try.

We're also gonna need pics of the table she's talking about. You can't leave us hangin like that.
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Fvck. It is this sort of juvenile post makes me hate what has become of this forum.
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Old 11-11-2012, 09:58 AM   #25
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Did i mention she is bipolar?
You posted her texts, we got the idea
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Another side note. I actually stopped jerking it for six months or so from March-Aug this year (maybe not completely but no more then once a month) and had no sex drive. This has never happened to me before. So I went to the doctor because I knew something was wrong. I had blood work done and guess what?? I had low T. I was prescribed AndroGel 1.6% Only in the last two months or so was I able to get back to my regular routine. I also explained this to her but she never believes me. Which I could never explain because I rarely lie.
From the beginning she has been the sexual aggressor in our relationship and that was fine. She at some point wanted for me to be more aggressive which is fine I because I can be sexually aggressive I just never had the need to be in our relationship. So I went that way and guess what rejection after rejection to the point I stopped trying. I felt like I was 16 again trying to deflower a chick.
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Old 11-11-2012, 10:08 AM   #28
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3 times a week? I fapped 3 times since clicking this thread
if your friends found out you're only jerking it 3 times a week they'll be sending you upset text messages why the number is so low.
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Old 11-11-2012, 10:20 AM   #29
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I do want to **** her. I love her very much. One of the reason we are in counseling is because 90% of the time that we have been living here (about a year) she has been sleeping on the couch for reasons she nor I can explain. She also has a child which makes non bedroom sex more difficult. Did i mention she is bipolar?

THIS is the disease. Your fapping is a mild symptom. Getting into slugfests over your fapping and defending it based on what the therapist or a bunch of random dudes on a car forum consider "normal" is a waste of energy and a distraction. Unless the fapping discussion is held in direct context to the larger issue, its pointless to argue about it.

I hate lying, then lying some more to cover up past lies. I have been down that road. I end up not being able to keep my lies straight. But I think you are correct in this case. A little lie here and there to keep this kind or drama out of my life would be OK.

If everything else is great, you can probably get away with a little lying about fapping. Even if you get caught in a lie, its probably not that big a deal.

But if she thinks you don't desire her, and she attributes it to just a general lack of desire on your part (age, medical, stress, whatever), and later finds out you DO have desire (enough to fap, anyway) that isn't created by/directed at her, having lied to her about it is going to blow up in your face. See the exchange in your first post for reference.


No ****. I have pointed this out many times. It does not help that she lies to me a lot for no reason. Shes the type that tells me what I want to hear insted of just telling me the truth.

Well, if you're hearing some truth now, listen carefully. And see your preceding comment about lying.

I'm trying. I had jealous girlfriends in the past but having a girlfriend that is jealous of my hand is new to me.

She's probably only jealous of your hand because it's the sole owner of the sexual aspect of your relationship. It's giving you what she wants to be giving you, and getting from you what she wants to be getting from you.

I think most mature adults understand that their SO is sometimes gonna do self-serve. No biggie. But everyone needs to feel that they're desirable, and if your GF feels that she's NOT desirable, but your hand IS, can you blame her for being jealous of your hand?


I'm gonna give that a try.

It may be the issues are much deeper. But at least with respect to fapping, if you're banging her on the regular, and you're doing it in such a way (remember that for women, the quality of sex is in the details) that she's secure with the thought that you desire her and she satisfies you, I'd bet your fapping becomes a non-issue.


So thats a "no" on the table pics?
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Oh no. I just picked some random web site that i figured would have a bunch of random men on it. lol
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No wonder you need couples counselling, posting her texts as an introduction to the forum. You obviously have no clue.
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No wonder you need couples counselling, posting her texts as an introduction to the forum. You obviously have no clue.
psh, we can counsel him better than any phony-baloney "therapist."

or were you saying he needs counseling for not including a pic of said girl? In that case, I agree.

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I knew it wouldn't be you. I'd hope you have left Rosie Palms the minute you met Tiff.
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op you seem so tense. Go crank one out. It'll help you feel better, i always do my best thinkin once i crank one out and take a good dump.
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buy the table she likes and fvck her on it. That table will save your relationship.
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