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Old 12-21-2012, 08:10 AM   #181
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Old 12-21-2012, 08:35 AM   #182
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Girl you were dating stops following you on instagram...do you unfollow back? Isn't unfollowing back bringing me to an immature level? it's fvcking instagram for God's sake..Man I'm bored.
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Old 12-21-2012, 01:23 PM   #183
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Jesus did I really post that...time to take a few steps back..in too deep

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Old 12-21-2012, 03:03 PM   #184
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Old 12-21-2012, 11:37 PM   #185
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Thanks for all the input fellas. I really do appreciate it.

I talked to Girl B a couple of nights ago over the phone. Super strange since we've yet to go out on an official date by ourselves, so every time we talk on the phone, its like a mini blindfolded date, we're still getting to know each other. Anyways, we talked for a bit, and the thing that I like about her is that she's very up front and blunt with questions. She asked what she thinks of our situation, and I just said it's good that we're learning about each other and that we've been keeping great communication. When I asked her, she said the same pretty much, but she says the distance thing sucks and she's just ancy to get home. Today's been the only day in 2 weeks where we haven't really talked, but she's in the middle of finals, so I'm giving her some room to focus. She literally just Snapchatted me a pic out of no where to say hi, so I'm not in the dark by any means apparently. By the way, Snapchat is going to blow up as a parent's worst nightmare .

Surprisingly, I've kept in light contact with Girl A, very brief just hey how you been sort of stuff. She texted me this morning out of no where saying how she really enjoyed a CD I had given her a couple weeks ago (the day I had the 'talk' with her). Talked briefly, she said I should come out to her training session at her gym tonight if I could, but I had **** to take care of, so I couldn't go. Just texted her now saying sorry that I couldn't make it, so we'll see how she responds. That was basically our entire relationship for the last 3-4 weeks. Everytime we had agreed on going out, she would text me a few hours before that something came up. The thing is, I know she's incredibly busy, and I know her family was going through some crap, so I know she wasn't lying to avoid me. I'm not talking out of my ass or trying to justify her, but I know that she was genuinely busy as hell over this past quarter. I even told her when we had the talk that I think she has too much on her plate to handle, and that she should've told me from the beginning.

Anyways. I'm going to an early Christmas party, hopefully gonna get hammered.
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I kept talking with Girl B, and things have been going south. I might be throwing a NYE party at my place, and she started out a phone call with "we should be really low key at your party so people don't start talking." Strike 1. The next day we talk on the phone again, and she asks about my past relationships. I tell her I've only had one real 'girlfriend' and it only lasted a couple of months back between my senior year of high school/freshman year of college (I'm now a senior in college). I told her things just didn't work out, so I've only dated off and on since then. She tells me how that kind of worries her since she was in a really long relationship up until a few months ago. Strike 2. Then she starts saying how scared she is about the distance between us and if we would be able to make it work. I'm not crazy about it either, but I thought we could at least hang out over break and see how things go. She keeps reiterating that she wants to take things slow, and frankly, its getting annoying because she's putting more pressure on me. She's basically dooming it from the beginning. Strike 3.

Got fed up with it, started talking to Girl A again. I hit her up for coffee on Tuesday because I wanted to talk with her, and see how things were feeling. We ended up going to a mutual friends party together instead, it was lame, so we left early, we got a bite to eat and I drove up some mountain to show her a view she's been dying to see since back when we were actually dating. We didn't hook up or anything, but we had fun. Chilled, talked, caught up, messed around a little bit (she really wanted to learn how to take some pics with a DSLR so I showed her). It was a cute impromptu date. Drover her back to her house. We talked a little more about our past situation and she said how she didn't have time over the quarter but now she does, and she kept saying she had a good time. I got a lot of things off my chest too, and I told her straight up "I made a huge effort over the quarter to spend time with you, I literally jumped through hoops at times, so if you still want to keep this going, you gotta return the favor a little bit." She giggled a bit, agreed, gave me a peck on the cheek and went our separate ways.

Fast forward to last night. I had told her about a show coming up at a club for Nadia Ali (we're both huge fans of hers) a while ago. She bought tickets but I WAS going to be busy. My plans cleared up and she had an extra ticket, so she insisted we go. Glad I did. It was me, her sister, and her sister's friend. Went in two cars, barely made it to the show and had a blast. We spent more time driving than actually being at the club, but it was still a lot of fun. Only got a peck on the cheek again, but it was a damn good night. Her older sister really likes me too from the sound of it, it's not the first time I've met her. Girl B texted me last night too, but I didn't reply till late. By the tone of her reply this morning, I think she might have gotten the hint that I'm fed up with her putting pressure on me for something that seems like it's not gonna work out. Gonna see if Girl A is free tomorrow or Sunday night to do something.


TLDR, CLIFFS:
-Girl B keeps getting annoying, stressing out about the distance, and putting unnecessary pressure on me
-Hung out with Girl A again on Tuesday
-Went to a club last night with Girl A and her sister
-Things are looking good again for Girl A and I (hopefully)

So yea. Looks like things have gotten a little interesting.

Now the question is: do I bother getting Girl A anything at all for Christmas? Even flowers or something?
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Old 12-22-2012, 04:35 PM   #186
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Old 12-23-2012, 12:45 AM   #187
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Old 12-23-2012, 12:49 AM   #188
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today i have a growing hatred for my borderline ex...
What is a borderline ex?

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Old 12-23-2012, 10:48 AM   #189
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when your relationship is over but not over...they're on the borderline and odds are in favor of them turning in to an ex, thus a borderline ex.
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Old 12-23-2012, 11:16 AM   #190
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Old 12-23-2012, 12:04 PM   #191
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when your relationship is over but not over...they're on the borderline and odds are in favor of them turning in to an ex, thus a borderline ex.
I know this feel.
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Old 12-24-2012, 11:04 PM   #192
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when your relationship is over but not over...they're on the borderline and odds are in favor of them turning in to an ex, thus a borderline ex.
enjoy the booty calls but know that it's over
otherwise it will hurt when it "really" ends
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Old 12-25-2012, 10:13 AM   #193
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No booty calls at all...it's just all hurt, with little chance of it working out.
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Old 12-26-2012, 12:52 AM   #194
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Old 12-26-2012, 02:23 AM   #195
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Why not bang them too at that point, They are impressionable no?
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Now the question is: do I bother getting Girl A anything at all for Christmas? Even flowers or something?
Late response... but ehhhh, might be a little premature. For me, flowers are best used when random days, basically when it's unexpected.
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My legitimate-EX has been going off on social media and posting stupid quote pictures, stupid statuses... basically a slue of passive aggressive posts. I really want to post something back but to this point, I've been holding back. Been thinking about posting a picture of me and a girl she thinks I'm dating now just to stir the pot.

Should I just sit back and let her do her thing or fire back a little?
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My legitimate-EX has been going off on social media and posting stupid quote pictures, stupid statuses... basically a slue of passive aggressive posts. I really want to post something back but to this point, I've been holding back. Been thinking about posting a picture of me and a girl she thinks I'm dating now just to stir the pot.

Should I just sit back and let her do her thing or fire back a little?
she's your ex, let it go... no good will come of it.
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Old 12-26-2012, 08:27 PM   #200
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My legitimate-EX has been going off on social media and posting stupid quote pictures, stupid statuses... basically a slue of passive aggressive posts. I really want to post something back but to this point, I've been holding back. Been thinking about posting a picture of me and a girl she thinks I'm dating now just to stir the pot.

Should I just sit back and let her do her thing or fire back a little?
oo drama. post the pic, I will comment on it how good you two look together on Facebook. Pot stirring will ensue.
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