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Old 01-08-2013, 11:00 AM   #321
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Yea man, I feel the same way. You try to make it work, be nice to her (but not too nice you know what I mean) and everything gets neglected? F that
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Yea man, I feel the same way. You try to make it work, be nice to her (but not too nice you know what I mean) and everything gets neglected? F that
yea screw her. I don't like her.
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Old 01-08-2013, 11:57 AM   #323
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Your gut is always right. She is not into you anymore. A girl who still loves her man will always make time or do the little special gestures to insure he knows how she feels even if she is super busy. Remember, girls are emotional creatures 24/7. Men are not. So when a girl all of a sudden gets unemotional towards you, it is too late. It is over.

Best advice is to walk away but it is the most difficult to do. Logic tells you if you try harder or are even nicer you can turn it around. That logic is flawed when it comes to women.
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Old 01-08-2013, 12:05 PM   #324
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Maturity advice needed-

My current girl and I are a pretty good match. We laugh together easily, the conversation is good, we work well physically, etc etc. However, she is a bit of a butterface: I'll give her body an 7-8 but her face is like 5. (pics will not be posted out of respect). To make matters worse, my college has lost of hotties... everywhere. How do you guys get over thinking "yeah, she's great, but I wish she was prettier," and "damn, I wish she looked like that girl." I'd like to put those thoughts behind me so I can just enjoy all the good points of the relationship.
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Old 01-08-2013, 12:08 PM   #325
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Dump her. No sense in holding on if you feel you can do better.
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Old 01-08-2013, 12:12 PM   #326
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Maturity advice needed-

My current girl and I are a pretty good match. We laugh together easily, the conversation is good, we work well physically, etc etc. However, she is a bit of a butterface: I'll give her body an 7-8 but her face is like 5. (pics will not be posted out of respect). To make matters worse, my college has lost of hotties... everywhere. How do you guys get over thinking "yeah, she's great, but I wish she was prettier," and "damn, I wish she looked like that girl." I'd like to put those thoughts behind me so I can just enjoy all the good points of the relationship.
hahahahha drop her
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Old 01-08-2013, 12:14 PM   #327
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hahahahha drop her
Just like that? The only thing to improve is a cuter face- everything else is great. Is it worth dumping over?
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Just like that? The only thing to improve is a cuter face- everything else is great. Is it worth dumping over?
She's a safe bet. She knows she's a safe bet, therefore she's probably awesome except for that, because she knows that's the only way she can keep a guy. You feel guilty because you want her personality, but hotter. Now you know why so many fat girls get laid, sometimes a guy just wants a sammich.

Do you want a sammich, or do you want a hotter girl. That's up to you.
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Maturity advice needed-

My current girl and I are a pretty good match. We laugh together easily, the conversation is good, we work well physically, etc etc. However, she is a bit of a butterface: I'll give her body an 7-8 but her face is like 5. (pics will not be posted out of respect). To make matters worse, my college has lost of hotties... everywhere. How do you guys get over thinking "yeah, she's great, but I wish she was prettier," and "damn, I wish she looked like that girl." I'd like to put those thoughts behind me so I can just enjoy all the good points of the relationship.
Spend an entire day with her sober... in the day light... in public. Then ask yourself what you should do.
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Spend an entire day with her sober... in the day light... in public. Then ask yourself what you should do.


As my grandfather told me as a kid. "Don't stick your d<sp>ick in anything you aren't afraid to go in public with."
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She's a safe bet. She knows she's a safe bet, therefore she's probably awesome except for that, because she knows that's the only way she can keep a guy. You feel guilty because you want her personality, but hotter. Now you know why so many fat girls get laid, sometimes a guy just wants a sammich.

Do you want a sammich, or do you want a hotter girl. That's up to you.
Pretty much.

I'll give it some thought, thanks guys.
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Just know that the grass isn't always greener, and no matter how hot a girl is, there's always someone sick of her. But, that doesn't mean you should stay in relationship because she's good to you.
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As my grandfather told me as a kid. "Don't stick your d<sp>ick in anything you aren't afraid to go in public with."
I alwaysss use this rule when considering girls. Usually the answer is no, I will not go out in public with them.
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I had myself in that situation..honestly if you can do better then do it..just get what you want from her, don't waste her time, or yours for that matter.
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the fact you are looking tells us you are already moving in to the next one. Don't be a dick and screw her over thinking you're doing the right thing. End it now before she becomes any more attached and you break her heart, needlessly.

As for the solid jake issue my advice is just a repeat of what other guys have said here. I am just now listening to it and passing it on so no one else repeats my screw up and have it cost them as much as it cost me.
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KrasivataSabine, how old are you guys?
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the fact you are looking tells us you are already moving in to the next one. Don't be a dick and screw her over thinking you're doing the right thing. End it now before she becomes any more attached and you break her heart, needlessly.
I'm very aware how this could turn into a situation where I am using her until something "better" comes along. If I decide that we need to break up, I'm going to communicate it immediately. However, I don't think we need to break up just yet. I have conflicted feelings- So far, I like almost literally everything about us... I just wish she was a little hotter. (then again, who wouldn't want their gf to be?) Is this feeling something that should or should not be acted upon? Is it something to just get over? I can't decide.

That's why I'm posting, wanted to get some clarity

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KrasivataSabine, how old are you guys?
college freshman, 18-19
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Also, does she play in a band?
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I'm very aware how this could turn into a situation where I am using her until something "better" comes along. If I decide that we need to break up, I'm going to communicate it immediately. However, I don't think we need to break up just yet. I have conflicted feelings- So far, I like almost literally everything about us... I just wish she was a little hotter. (then again, who wouldn't want their gf to be?) Is this feeling something that should or should not be acted upon? Is it something to just get over? I can't decide.

That's why I'm posting, wanted to get some clarity



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jesus christ move on. You're not my age, 30, and need to put up the pros and cons of a girl willing you treat you right vs on that may look a little better.

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18-19, not to let age be a factor to write off your situation, but you have no idea how insignificant this stage you are in is..really you will meet a lot of other women and you won't even remember this girl. Trust me, you are so young.
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