2nd BMW

I got my second BMW, a 325 xi 2002 black and tan a few weeks ago. I am loving the forum, and have a friend with a 2003 and a half M3 who's been talking about the site as well. I live in Louisville. I am looking to mod my car some. It does have high mileage (180k) however its been my Dad's, plus it's mostly highway, also has been well maintenanced. I'm excited to do a few things to improve the exterior and the performance (maybe a short shift and eventually a new clutch as it's still running the original clutch at 180! I first want to locate some 18-19" wheels and clear the lighting all around. I am up for input on the wheels and on the lights, please! I like the LED look (cant decide a brand or site for this and don't know if I like clear or LED) and have looked at a few M wheels I like, I know I'd need 4 front M wheels. Thanks anyone who has feedback... I'm looking forward to meeting some cool people with similar interest.