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Old 01-08-2013, 03:59 PM   #341
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If not for Facebook, I'm confident I'd have forgotten most of the girls I was involved with in college.

It seems like a big deal to you now, but we can all assure you - it's not.

Do whatever. Stop thinking about it. Go to class.
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your first gut feeling is leave or stay? Go with that, simplest answer is usually the best one.
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Old 01-08-2013, 05:24 PM   #343
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Old 01-08-2013, 06:54 PM   #344
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Your gut is always right. She is not into you anymore. A girl who still loves her man will always make time or do the little special gestures to insure he knows how she feels even if she is super busy. Remember, girls are emotional creatures 24/7. Men are not. So when a girl all of a sudden gets unemotional towards you, it is too late. It is over.

Best advice is to walk away but it is the most difficult to do. Logic tells you if you try harder or are even nicer you can turn it around. That logic is flawed when it comes to women.
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Old 01-08-2013, 07:21 PM   #345
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Your gut is always right. She is not into you anymore. A girl who still loves her man will always make time or do the little special gestures to insure he knows how she feels even if she is super busy. Remember, girls are emotional creatures 24/7. Men are not. So when a girl all of a sudden gets unemotional towards you, it is too late. It is over.

Best advice is to walk away but it is the most difficult to do. Logic tells you if you try harder or are even nicer you can turn it around. That logic is flawed when it comes to women.
Sh*t... goin through some stuff w my girl... she is super busy with work and work and work so I'm trying to give her some space so she can get situated with what she needs to get done with work and schedule then get me worked in too but my gut is telling me shes had enough. Gonna send flowers and see what kind of response I get out of that...

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Old 01-08-2013, 07:34 PM   #346
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Sh*t... goin through some stuff w my girl... she is super busy with work and work and work so I'm trying to give her some space so she can get situated with what she needs to get done with work and schedule then get me worked in too but my gut is telling me shes had enough. Gonna send flowers and see what kind of response I get out of that...

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Old 01-08-2013, 09:03 PM   #347
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Yea man, I feel the same way. You try to make it work, be nice to her (but not too nice you know what I mean) and everything gets neglected? F that
Life is full of adversity, if she can't handle it now, it is a sign of things to come and more heartache/frustrations for you; I would just quietly bow out of the relationship... no need to play games and ignore her, but you you shouldn't have to tolerate those kinds of actions on her part.

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Sh*t... goin through some stuff w my girl... she is super busy with work and work and work so I'm trying to give her some space so she can get situated with what she needs to get done with work and schedule then get me worked in too but my gut is telling me shes had enough. Gonna send flowers and see what kind of response I get out of that...

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Dude **** that ****. Go buy yourself something instead. Relationships require give and take to be successful, if she doesn't' find at least some way, however small, to show you she cares then she isn't worth your time. Life is short, don't send her flowers.
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Old 01-08-2013, 09:58 PM   #349
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Sh*t... goin through some stuff w my girl... she is super busy with work and work and work so I'm trying to give her some space so she can get situated with what she needs to get done with work and schedule then get me worked in too but my gut is telling me shes had enough. Gonna send flowers and see what kind of response I get out of that...

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Sh*t... goin through some stuff w my girl... she is super busy with work and work and work so I'm trying to give her some space so she can get situated with what she needs to get done with work and schedule then get me worked in too but my gut is telling me shes had enough. Gonna send flowers and see what kind of response I get out of that...

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Sending flowers would be rewarding her for bad actions. If you had a dog and he **** on the carpet would you reward it with a treat? No, you'd rub it's nose in it and teach it a lesson. Talk sure let her know sure but be prepared for the variety of answers she may come at you with. I wish I had came on here a lot sooner with my Ex and avoided a lot of stupid mistakes I made with her that lead me to this point.
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Old 01-09-2013, 02:37 AM   #352
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Sending flowers would be rewarding her for bad actions. If you had a dog and he **** on the carpet would you reward it with a treat? No, you'd rub it's nose in it and teach it a lesson. Talk sure let her know sure but be prepared for the variety of answers she may come at you with. I wish I had came on here a lot sooner with my Ex and avoided a lot of stupid mistakes I made with her that lead me to this point.
as i started reading this, i was going to tell you to listen to your own advice
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Flowers NOT being sent. I guess see if she comes back on her own. If not then it was a great time while it was.

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Sending flowers would be rewarding her for bad actions. If you had a dog and he **** on the carpet would you reward it with a treat? No, you'd rub it's nose in it and teach it a lesson. Talk sure let her know sure but be prepared for the variety of answers she may come at you with. I wish I had came on here a lot sooner with my Ex and avoided a lot of stupid mistakes I made with her that lead me to this point.
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as i started reading this, i was going to tell you to listen to your own advice
i am now...hope it never comes in handy with the next one.
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I sent her a text this morning telling her to call me when she's free. Going to tell her it's over.
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I wish I had came on here a lot sooner with my Ex and avoided a lot of stupid mistakes I made with her that lead me to this point.
I cannot even count the number of times I have thought the same thing. Looking back on all the sh!t I did, I feel like a total dumbass.
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I cannot even count the number of times I have thought the same thing. Looking back on all the sh!t I did, I feel like a total dumbass.
remember there is a reason you acted the way you did. I often look back and say the same thing and think about times where I just stopped caring to help her with little things here and there and I realize it's because I wasn't happy. I think when you stop doing things for others that you normally wouldn't like doing for yourself, it's time to move on. For example, with the new girl, I love just making food for us, or going to warm up her car in the am. Little things like that. I know if those feelings go away it's not working out. So don't beat yourself up for mistakes you made.
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I sent her a text this morning telling her to call me when she's free. Going to tell her it's over.
just me but I wouldn't even bother with a call... if she calls you, fine, but I think the signals are clear.
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