Random Love Line postings

Originally Posted by Solidjake

I sent her a text this morning telling her to call me when she's free. Going to tell her it's over.

not going to meet her in person to do it? I think that is the best way to do it, but it is not everything.

Originally Posted by Solidjake

I sent her a text this morning telling her to call me when she's free. Going to tell her it's over.

Good luck but don't expect much, I shouldn't have for my ex.

Originally Posted by SamDoe1

I cannot even count the number of times I have thought the same thing. Looking back on all the sh!t I did, I feel like a total dumbass.

Yea we all make mistakes, just have to learn and move on from it. Every man falls it's how they get back up that determines their greatness.

Originally Posted by DylloS

in for the play by play.
remember there is a reason you acted the way you did. I often look back and say the same thing and think about times where I just stopped caring to help her with little things here and there and I realize it's because I wasn't happy. I think when you stop doing things for others that you normally wouldn't like doing for yourself, it's time to move on. For example, with the new girl, I love just making food for us, or going to warm up her car in the am. Little things like that. I know if those feelings go away it's not working out. So don't beat yourself up for mistakes you made.

Exactly what I said lol.

Originally Posted by CMT247

just me but I wouldn't even bother with a call... if she calls you, fine, but I think the signals are clear.

Originally Posted by B_Cyrus

not going to meet her in person to do it? I think that is the best way to do it, but it is not everything.

interesting perspectives...I tend to side with CMT247 (forgot your name my bad ) but I guess it just depends on what gives "you" better closure on things.

For me I had to send one last text message, because a in person conversation was not going to happen.

This sucks. From spending so much time with someone and being the only one I've opened up with about my past to absolutely nothing blows. But it has increased my time in the gym instead of the beer bottles--even though beer is calling quite loudly....

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Bro just **** her mom.

in for pics of mom

No pics of either- out of respect for them, sorry guys. Still tryin to piece together where I may have screwed up or if she just up and quit liking me or even worse--has another dude. More of them out there though, so out I shall go

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Originally Posted by DylloS

remember there is a reason you acted the way you did. I often look back and say the same thing and think about times where I just stopped caring to help her with little things here and there and I realize it's because I wasn't happy. I think when you stop doing things for others that you normally wouldn't like doing for yourself, it's time to move on. For example, with the new girl, I love just making food for us, or going to warm up her car in the am. Little things like that. I know if those feelings go away it's not working out. So don't beat yourself up for mistakes you made.

More so with how I dealt with the breakup than the during, I was young and stupid so whatever. This was 5 years ago so it's all water under the bridge now. Next girl I met after her was beyond amazing.

Originally Posted by mcr_driver

Yea we all make mistakes, just have to learn and move on from it. Every man falls it's how they get back up that determines their greatness.

Agreed and hindsight is always 20/20. The first 2ish months were rough but then summer came around and all was forgotten about her.

Originally Posted by ElectricRed46

No pics of either- out of respect for them,

we don't need nudes or anything

Having a bit of a moment right now...had a great day at work and afterwards come home to see a post from a mutual "friend" of my ex's and I. I deleted her and I should've deleted him but she never comments on his posts. The posts are about them hanging out this weekend and general chit chat (no contact since we broke up on Christmas.) I always had a feeling they would get together in the back of my mind, guess I was right or I am probably blowing it out of proportion, either way I need to get past it and remind myself of the negative things and continue to improve and move on. He's deleted now and I will go sifting through my friends list and removing all mutual contacts.

Originally Posted by mcr_driver

Having a bit of a moment right now...had a great day at work and afterwards come home to see a post from a mutual "friend" of my ex's and I. I deleted her and I should've deleted him but she never comments on his posts. The posts are about them hanging out this weekend and general chit chat (no contact since we broke up on Christmas.) I always had a feeling they would get together in the back of my mind, guess I was right or I am probably blowing it out of proportion, either way I need to get past it and remind myself of the negative things and continue to improve and move on. He's deleted now and I will go sifting through my friends list and removing all mutual contacts.

I know where you are coming from, had a douche friend start talking to a girl while I was dating her. Picked up on it at the time because I had a feeling something was going on, and just straight up asked him like a man whether or not he was talking to her. He couldn't give me a straight answer, tried to bob and weave around it, held my ground and asked him for a no bs answer...like any man would do. Needless to say he's a little bitch, and he knows I've cut him off...ever since then he's been trying to contact me to smooth things over, long story short..a douche is a douche..they will do douchey things.. No need for them in your lives. Cut them both off, you will meet a new woman and forget about both of them. Trust me, guaranteed.

Decisions shall be made with my Girl A situation this coming Monday or Tuesday. This **** has gone long enough without being addressed.

Could end amazingly well, or terribly. We'll see.

Originally Posted by mcr_driver

Having a bit of a moment right now...had a great day at work and afterwards come home to see a post from a mutual "friend" of my ex's and I. I deleted her and I should've deleted him but she never comments on his posts. The posts are about them hanging out this weekend and general chit chat (no contact since we broke up on Christmas.) I always had a feeling they would get together in the back of my mind, guess I was right or I am probably blowing it out of proportion, either way I need to get past it and remind myself of the negative things and continue to improve and move on. He's deleted now and I will go sifting through my friends list and removing all mutual contacts.

that will happen man. Just remember she isn't your gf anymore and people will go after her. Do what I did and block her until you feel you are over it completely. My advice is to get with any girl at this point. Most likely it will make you feel a lot better. I don't know your social situation but just get out there. It's the weekend. But just know we all went through this sh1t at one point and it does get better. I don't miss my ex one bit.

Yea cut them both out, it's just one those moments that happen from time to time. It's natural as much as I hate to admit it getting over her. I just have to brush off these moments and keep going.

Proud i ran 3 miles in about 20 minutes yesterday at the beach then still hit the gym with my friend. I hadn't had a good running time like that for over a year.

So in my sleep I think I farted on her leg with great force. I guess the half asleep me forgot I was with someone and just let it rip. It was a really good one and I'm pretty sure she felt it.

Originally Posted by DylloS

that will happen man. Just remember she isn't your gf anymore and people will go after her. Do what I did and block her until you feel you are over it completely. My advice is to get with any girl at this point. Most likely it will make you feel a lot better. I don't know your social situation but just get out there. It's the weekend. But just know we all went through this sh1t at one point and it does get better. I don't miss my ex one bit.

yea man. when my girl of three years dumped me I just started slamming all the poon I always wanted to slam but couldn't slam because of gf.

in short, go slam poon

Originally Posted by DylloS

So in my sleep I think I farted on her leg with great force. I guess the half asleep me forgot I was with someone and just let it rip. It was a really good one and I'm pretty sure she felt it.

I did that with a dime in my bed once. Still don't know if she heard it

The worst part is you always look over to see if it woke them. Their eyes are closed and they're motionless. Sure it might not have woken them.... but part of you always wonders if they're too scared to open their eyes because the awkwardness that could ensue would simply be too scarring.

Damn I thought I was the only one that thought of this stuff

The sheets probably inflated and I didn't move an inch to see if she moved. I was barely asleep, and it woke me up

you know that smell lurked thru though.