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Old 01-15-2013, 12:08 PM   #401
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I guess the definition of a date varies from person to person. I guess hanging out could be considered a date for some people. I used to think that way now it depends.
chump, clown, overly nice guy that will get sh1t on.

I rarely ever stated "this is a date". I always let them assume and picked up the tab. But I hardly ever went out to dinner or anything the first time we hung out.
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Old 01-15-2013, 12:14 PM   #402
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chump, clown, overly nice guy that will get sh1t on.

I rarely ever stated "this is a date". I always let them assume and picked up the tab. But I hardly ever went out to dinner or anything the first time we hung out.
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Old 01-15-2013, 12:30 PM   #403
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chump, clown, overly nice guy that will get sh1t on.

I rarely ever stated "this is a date". I always let them assume and picked up the tab. But I hardly ever went out to dinner or anything the first time we hung out.
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Old 01-15-2013, 12:30 PM   #404
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Old 01-15-2013, 12:36 PM   #405
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I do find that dating has gone exclusively to texting these days, but I usually ignore the rules of "wait 3 days after meeting a girl to text her" and all that bs. Straight to the point, let's meet up seems to work. Keep it light and casual, no need to say "let me take you to dinner" or something formal like that.
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Old 01-16-2013, 08:05 PM   #406
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Interesting convo with some girl friends today..one was bragging how she was flirting with a guy she met, said he was amazingly attractive, great convo..she grabbed his phone and put in her number...only to later tell him she is seeing someone..which she is. Girls are shady as fuuuk..when I asked why even bother wasting her time, her response "Idk it's fun." These stank azz ho's...girls..poor bastard that's dating her has no clue she's running around giving out her number. If I knew the guy better..I feel like I'd tell him..but eh not my place in this case.
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Old 01-16-2013, 08:08 PM   #407
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Old 01-16-2013, 08:45 PM   #408
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Old 01-17-2013, 01:02 AM   #409
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I've been saying girls sometimes give their number out with zero intent to answer for a while on here.
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Old 01-17-2013, 01:33 AM   #410
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Old 01-17-2013, 01:48 AM   #411
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I've been saying girls sometimes give their number out with zero intent to answer for a while on here.
guys can do the same ... get a number just to see if they can
i've done this ONCE (get a number without any intent to ever call)

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one time, i made a move on a girl just to see if she'd go with it ... (without any intent to pursue anything more)
and she did...
... ended up dating for several months and then getting my heart broken because i fell for her hard
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Old 01-17-2013, 08:30 AM   #412
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It is an ego boost thing they do and heck...some of us guys do too.

The whole notion is to give yourself options. It is dating...that's what they do. Now if in a committed relationship that crap were to occurr...well then move on in a hurry.

As for the comment about dating moving to mostly all texting.....truth! But in a way this is a positive thing. The girl really knows nothing about you. Thus you can't really lose points. Which makes it an easier endeavor to hit the poon. Think about it, attraction usually fades the more you learn about someone right? If all you do is text it is pretty hard to F it up. Again...this is dating...not relationships.
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Old 01-18-2013, 10:47 AM   #413
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Maybe I'm being weird but I've been hanging out with this girl since Dec 1st but I feel like I'm making all the effort. We see each other and she stays over about 3 nights a week, has a tooth brush at my house, has been to multiple parties with me and met all my friends, been to a bunch of dinners, and a wedding with me but for some reason I feel like she isn't into it as much as I am her, which I don't want her to know. The only reason I say this, and I could be wrong, is because I always initiate the plans. I always have to come up with things to do, or reasons to get together. She has never canceled plans and is always down to come over and just hang out whenever I want her to. There are no signs of her hanging out with anyone else or anything like that. We have a lot of mutual friends so I'm assuming I would hear something. She's also super affectionate when we're together, says things like "you're so good to me" and thanks me for the little things I do. I have gotten hints from her that she likes when I take charge so maybe that's it. She has also mentioned things hinting at being together well into the summer (talking about certain summer activities). To the outside world it seems to be going almost too perfectly. We have a lot in common, can joke around, and all that stuff. I'm probably just being an insecure weirdo. I'm just used to younger girls and their constant contact (texting all day everyday). We text throughout the day and talk on the phone every few days which I'm not used to lol. I'm a big time planner though. I always like to have plans in place for whatever I do. Like tonight, it's a Friday night and I have nothing set up yet which is odd. I'd like to see what she is doing but I don't want to be the one to make plans again. I feel like she's more of the type that just does whatever comes up and doesn't necessarily have to plan much.

So, what do you guys think? Am I being weird? I think I just have my guard up because I don't want to get hurt I guess.
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Old 01-18-2013, 11:05 AM   #414
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My girl is the same way... I don't mind making the plans as she's incredibly indecisive. For us, we just casually chat about the plans... sometimes, I'm the one that tells her to go hang out with her friends. Gotta maintain that balance.
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Old 01-18-2013, 11:09 AM   #415
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My girl is the same way... I don't mind making the plans as she's incredibly indecisive. For us, we just casually chat about the plans... sometimes, I'm the one that tells her to go hang out with her friends. Gotta maintain that balance.
yea it's always a casual thing like "come by tomorrow night this show is on" or whatever. I'm sure I'm just being overly analytical about the whole situation. I think if we had a title I'd be a little less "worried" I guess. I'm enjoying everything but I am also preparing myself for it to just end out of no where. Which is kind of stressful lol.
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My last ex and a lot of girl's i've been with were like that as well...I think a lot of women will either let the guy lead or they are in to the alpha male thing. I'd say if there are no signs of foul play, then play ball.

I'd say let this friday go and have a guys night, maybe use this as a test bed to see what happens. If she gets upset at your for not making plans or texts to surprise you by saying lets do something, that sort of thing. It will give you a perspective to gauge things.

Speaking of which, now my turn to figure things out, I am talking to this girl from OK cupid we've been texting everyday since I got her number last weekend at first it was very flirty and joking, now it seems to have fizzled out to finding out facts about each other. I made plans to hang out with her for the first time this sunday (this was on tuesday) and so far she hasn't brought it up. I am wondering if I should bring it up and "plan" ahead or just play it by ear for sunday. Our "plans" were to get together near her for dinner and she really wanted to watch "mama." I know that it's a big no no to go see a movie as a first meeting but it was an opening I had to hang out with her. I'm thinking I should do something a bit different to draw in more interest, thoughts or suggestions?
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Old 01-18-2013, 11:27 AM   #417
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My last ex and a lot of girl's i've been with were like that as well...I think a lot of women will either let the guy lead or they are in to the alpha male thing. I'd say if there are no signs of foul play, then play ball.

I'd say let this friday go and have a guys night, maybe use this as a test bed to see what happens. If she gets upset at your for not making plans or texts to surprise you by saying lets do something, that sort of thing. It will give you a perspective to gauge things.

Speaking of which, now my turn to figure things out, I am talking to this girl from OK cupid we've been texting everyday since I got her number last weekend at first it was very flirty and joking, now it seems to have fizzled out to finding out facts about each other. I made plans to hang out with her for the first time this sunday (this was on tuesday) and so far she hasn't brought it up. I am wondering if I should bring it up and "plan" ahead or just play it by ear for sunday. Our "plans" were to get together near her for dinner and she really wanted to watch "mama." I know that it's a big no no to go see a movie as a first meeting but it was an opening I had to hang out with her. I'm thinking I should do something a bit different to draw in more interest, thoughts or suggestions?
I would bring it up to confirm plans. I think that date may be ok because it's a horror movie. This is potential for a lot of contact. Go for it.
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yea it's always a casual thing like "come by tomorrow night this show is on" or whatever. I'm sure I'm just being overly analytical about the whole situation. I think if we had a title I'd be a little less "worried" I guess. I'm enjoying everything but I am also preparing myself for it to just end out of no where. Which is kind of stressful lol.
We haven't talked titles in my situation. I don't stress it though, I know if I said, "sooooooooo, we ****in friends?" probably wouldn't go to well. We started talking mid-Nov.

You can't think like it's gonna end at any moment, girls do the self fulfilling prophecy thing... not dudes. You seem to have a good feel as to how she feels about you guys, I'm sure your girl doesn't have toothbrushes at other guys houses. Unless she's a whore.
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We haven't talked titles in my situation. I don't stress it though, I know if I said, "sooooooooo, we ****in friends?" probably wouldn't go to well. We started talking mid-Nov.

You can't think like it's gonna end at any moment, girls do the self fulfilling prophecy thing... not dudes. You seem to have a good feel as to how she feels about you guys, I'm sure your girl doesn't have toothbrushes at other guys houses. Unless she's a whore.
hahah you're right. I need to chill the fuuck out. I think I'm just excited I found a really cool chick. I wont bring up the title or anything until I know it's time. Sounds like we're in a similar situation with our girls.

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That's what I was thinking since it's a scary film and all, plus we'll chit chat beforehand when we're eating, etc. Congrats on the girl though I'm not sure if this one will click or not but it feels good to be moving on little by little.
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