Where'd the sex drive go?

"Mr. Jack"

Originally Posted by cityjohn

"Mr. Jack"

Best joke.. Thread over. Everybody get out.

The cause is either mental or physical. Address each area.

Physical:

Lift weights, it'll increase testosterone levels, make a big difference even if 3 times a week.
Eat healthy and stay away from white carbs, sugar, and food with bad fat.

Mental:

Relax
More foreplay
Try something new with girls.

Originally Posted by z00

The cause is either mental or physical. Address each area.

Physical:

Lift weights, it'll increase testosterone levels, make a big difference even if 3 times a week.
Eat healthy and stay away from white carbs, sugar, and food with bad fat.

Mental:

Relax
More foreplay
Try something new with girls.

This is huge. Sometimes me and the girl get right into it and it's not ideal. You gotta build that sh1t up. Problem is sometimes you get so worked up it's over in a few minutes lol.

I hate that... when you get too excited over the foreplay

Viagra

Originally Posted by DylloS

I need a very pretty girl to finish

I've been having this problem lately too, esp after a hard night of drinking

Originally Posted by dreamdrivedrift

I've been having this problem lately too, esp after a hard night of drinking

Yep, every night for the last year for me.

Been taking and applying the advice from the thread. Essentially I am just going to build it all up for a week or so and see if that helps the situation.

Another problem is that this girl isn't the best at foreplay. She doesn't have a gag reflex, but definitely has nothing else going for it other than that.

Originally Posted by Mr.Jack

Been taking and applying the advice from the thread. Essentially I am just going to build it all up for a week or so and see if that helps the situation.

Another problem is that this girl isn't the best at foreplay. She doesn't have a gag reflex, but definitely has nothing else going for it other than that.

Lol what else do you want. Assuming you guys are making out and she's sucking your dick. Isn't that pretty much foreplay?

Yeah, I would say so. Don't really know how to explain it so I will use a peanut butter jar as an example for the lolz.

Imagine hollowing out a jar except for some peanut butter at the bottom. You feel nothing else except for when the head of your dick hits the bottom peanut butter. That **** doesn't get me excited, it's boring.

As others have stated, don't underestimate what having too much going on in your life can do to your ability to love and be loved. It's taken a toll on me through the years. So, nothing here new from me, but........


...Do me a favor? Dump her if it's not there. I'm a decade older than you. I dated the woman I'm married to right now, all the way through college, meanwhile playing the field as much as a I could the rest of the time. Not healthy. I attempted to break up with her, mainly so I could play all I wanted to, but it was also unfair for me to do that to her. Now, 12 years later, I am married and less than happy. And her too. If you don't feel it for the chick, let her go. Save yourself a lot of crap many years later on. Breaking up sucks, and I'm not saying it's the answer for you right now. But if it becomes clear that you want to be free, do it. Don't worry too much about the short term pain. It's for long term happiness for both of you.

Originally Posted by Mr.Jack

Yeah, I would say so. Don't really know how to explain it so I will use a peanut butter jar as an example for the lolz.

Imagine hollowing out a jar except for some peanut butter at the bottom. You feel nothing else except for when the head of your dick hits the bottom peanut butter. That **** doesn't get me excited, it's boring.

I know exactly what you're saying.

Originally Posted by ashpelham

As others have stated, don't underestimate what having too much going on in your life can do to your ability to love and be loved. It's taken a toll on me through the years. So, nothing here new from me, but........


...Do me a favor? Dump her if it's not there. I'm a decade older than you. I dated the woman I'm married to right now, all the way through college, meanwhile playing the field as much as a I could the rest of the time. Not healthy. I attempted to break up with her, mainly so I could play all I wanted to, but it was also unfair for me to do that to her. Now, 12 years later, I am married and less than happy. And her too. If you don't feel it for the chick, let her go. Save yourself a lot of crap many years later on. Breaking up sucks, and I'm not saying it's the answer for you right now. But if it becomes clear that you want to be free, do it. Don't worry too much about the short term pain. It's for long term happiness for both of you.

Holy **** this sounds like an older version of me

Originally Posted by Mr.Jack

As far as eating habits go, would that have such a significant impact? During this holiday my sleep patterns have been horrendous.. I trade currencies for money right now and the best time for me to do these things is very late at night through early morning, so my eating has been absolutely atrocious recently in comparison to normal semester life.

Lifestyle definitely has an impact. In my 20s I used to work in Singapore trading currencies on the European / US markets so I was working overnight. Whenever there was a lul in trade, we'd place our stops and head out to eat. Often it was superbly tasty but very unhealthy. The night work and rich food had an impact on my desire and effectiveness. I was always exercising little apart from swimming on alternate days.

Plus the physical aspect, there's the mental and emotional side as well... Solly and others have pointed out somethings that you may wish to consider.

How are you doing so far?