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Old 02-02-2013, 12:06 PM   #681
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Make plans for this coming week. No need to stretch it out. IMO the 3 day rule is retarded. It's much more about how you act after you get together
I have absolutely 0 time during the week (
Work 1Pm till 2Am and sometimes later Monday through Thursday, plus cooking and exercise). I'll see if she wants to do something next weekend.




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She probably has Super Bowl plans. I'd respond a little and ask her for next weekend. Unless neither of you have plans Sunday... I doubt a party would be an ideal first date to get to know her.
Good point, a party isn't a great way to make a first impression, plus i don't like taking a woman i don't know well around my friends. Next weekend it is!

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Old 02-02-2013, 01:04 PM   #682
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When i went tanning today (it's winter in Wisconsin, if i don't, i turn ungodly white) there was this GORGEOUS girl working the counter. We talked for about 15 minutes and really hit it off until another customer came in. So i went and did my thing, on my way out I gave her my info she added me on Facebook and messaged me.

I'm thinking of responding a little, then mid next week seeing if she wants to do something on that weekend. Or should i jump on it now and ask tomorrow if she wants to do something this Sunday?

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No need to play mind/waiting games. Just hit her up anytime you want to see her. During the time you wait to ask, another person could be asking her out to hang.

Go big or go home. You have nothing to lose.

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Old 02-03-2013, 06:30 AM   #683
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She probably has Super Bowl plans. I'd respond a little and ask her for next weekend. Unless neither of you have plans Sunday... I doubt a party would be an ideal first date to get to know her.
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No need to play mind/waiting games. Just hit her up anytime you want to see her. During the time you wait to ask, another person could be asking her out to hang.

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My thoughts not this weekend but definitely ask her out to do something to get to know her better take a workout day and turn it in to a hike or a fun day to get to know her?
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Old 02-03-2013, 12:12 PM   #684
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My thoughts not this weekend but definitely ask her out to do something to get to know her better take a workout day and turn it in to a hike or a fun day to get to know her?
You must be from a southern state, lol. A hike is my go to first date/hangout, but January in Wisconsin our high yesterday was 0 and with windchill we've been at about -30 several times over the last couple weeks. Its hard to figure out what to do in the winter....

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Old 02-03-2013, 08:08 PM   #685
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Old 02-03-2013, 10:05 PM   #686
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So then magically get snowed in together and make but I agree with the comments I quoted.
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Old 02-04-2013, 11:13 PM   #687
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Old 02-06-2013, 11:40 AM   #688
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Amazon just rated my town top romantic town in the US for 2 years in a row. Not from any help of mine, I haven't had to buy V'day stuff in a very long time.
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What town is this and congrats?
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What's your guys opinion on planning things with new gf's. Friends are talking about possible vacations in May and I'd probably need to run this stuff by the new gf since I'd want her to come. Keep in mind we have a lot of conversions about how we can't wait for warmer weather to do things and all that stuff. I know anything can happen but when is a good time?
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A good time for me was when the right deal came along, as you could bring it up in conversation and see their feedback. It was one of those the price won't get better let's strike while the iron is hot. Went on a wine tasting weekend once because they had a special and had an amazing time (this was about 4-5 months in to the relationship.)
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Old 02-06-2013, 01:31 PM   #692
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You're dating now, you can stop analyzing. Just don't make plans that have the possibility of not happening for unforeseen circumstances. Also, don't add any extra pressure to the relationship by planning too far ahead.
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Old 02-06-2013, 02:02 PM   #693
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What's your guys opinion on planning things with new gf's. Friends are talking about possible vacations in May and I'd probably need to run this stuff by the new gf since I'd want her to come. Keep in mind we have a lot of conversions about how we can't wait for warmer weather to do things and all that stuff. I know anything can happen but when is a good time?
Any time is a good time. Don't over think it. Tell her what you want to do and that you want her to come with you.

Don't ask her. Tell her.
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You're dating now, you can stop analyzing. Just don't make plans that have the possibility of not happening for unforeseen circumstances. Also, don't add any extra pressure to the relationship by planning too far ahead.
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Any time is a good time. Don't over think it. Tell her what you want to do and that you want her to come with you.

Don't ask her. Tell her.
yea it's a few months. I'll probably bring it up in March or something. We have a trip to Boston planned for the first weekend in March to see some friends. Casino, the problem with "telling" her is that it's insisting that I pay for everything. This cruise would leave the day before her 30th and I have no problem paying for most of it but I'm not exactly ballin at the moment lol

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What town is this and congrats?
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Casino, the problem with "telling" her is that it's insisting that I pay for everything. This cruise would leave the day before her 30th and I have no problem paying for most of it but I'm not exactly ballin at the moment lol
That's a good point. Then change your strategy.

"Hey I've been thinking about going on this trip with some friends. Would you have any interest in going? From what I can tell it seems to be reasonably priced."


That' the best I can come up with.
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Old 02-06-2013, 03:04 PM   #697
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That's a good point. Then change your strategy.

"Hey I've been thinking about going on this trip with some friends. Would you have any interest in going? From what I can tell it seems to be reasonably priced."


That' the best I can come up with.
not bad. I'll do this soon. I really really want to go away. I just don't think I can fund both trips
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It's probably safe to say she didn't get into the relationship with a guy that's 30 with 3 roommates for the money.
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You're dating now, you can stop analyzing. Just don't make plans that have the possibility of not happening for unforeseen circumstances. Also, don't add any extra pressure to the relationship by planning too far ahead.


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Huh...Vegas is 13th? Really? :notsureifsrs:

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It's probably safe to say she didn't get into the relationship with a guy that's 30 with 3 roommates for the money.
Also a good point...
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