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Old 02-12-2013, 07:35 AM   #721
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Well my vday was a page from fail'ville.

She is going to be out of town this week due to work. So we arranged to get together last evening for a pre-vday vday.

Left work a few min early, got to her place, was in an upbeat mood, carried a positive demeonor. She was looking great too. Plan was to go out for a nice dinner then chill together at her place for a bit.

Dinner...as we sat down at the table...she snarked that she hoped they improved the place since she'd been there last. Umm ok. Then she began talking about her day...her stress at work....the people at work that she hates....the tasks she is working on that annoy her...etc. It was a total road trip down negativitiy lane. Sheesh!!!!! I tried to politely sway the convo saying hey..it is our vday...let's forget that stuff, have a few laughs and be us. Well then she got all quiet reluctant to say much. I suggested we share a dessert....she wasn't really into that idea. So I paid for the bill...we went back to her place.

Then my rotten luck kicked in. Whatever I ate started taking its toll on my stomach. I was def not fit to being doing anything close or intimate. So the night was a bomb and she'll be away until Saturday.

Hope you boys have better luck than I did.
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Old 02-12-2013, 08:23 AM   #722
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Well my vday was a page from fail'ville.

She is going to be out of town this week due to work. So we arranged to get together last evening for a pre-vday vday.

Left work a few min early, got to her place, was in an upbeat mood, carried a positive demeonor. She was looking great too. Plan was to go out for a nice dinner then chill together at her place for a bit.

Dinner...as we sat down at the table...she snarked that she hoped they improved the place since she'd been there last. Umm ok. Then she began talking about her day...her stress at work....the people at work that she hates....the tasks she is working on that annoy her...etc. It was a total road trip down negativitiy lane. Sheesh!!!!! I tried to politely sway the convo saying hey..it is our vday...let's forget that stuff, have a few laughs and be us. Well then she got all quiet reluctant to say much. I suggested we share a dessert....she wasn't really into that idea. So I paid for the bill...we went back to her place.

Then my rotten luck kicked in. Whatever I ate started taking its toll on my stomach. I was def not fit to being doing anything close or intimate. So the night was a bomb and she'll be away until Saturday.

Hope you boys have better luck than I did.
Sounds like my ex. No matter how good things were she let the little problems come out and ruin her day. Another reason I do not miss her at all. How long have you been with her?
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Old 02-12-2013, 08:27 AM   #723
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So, interesting night for me last night. Apparently the ex found out about us, not that I care, but he was running his mouth about how he heard I'm boring, and that i'm talking a ton of sh1t about her. Both of which offended me because I pride myself in being a fun dude and have nothing but good things to say about her. It really didn't bother me as much as it made me laugh and wonder who he knows that I know. He's older, and as far as I know none of my close friends that know about us know him. She seemed to laugh it off and if anything it brought us closer last night. I think she was a little worried how I'd react to a jealous ex and I really don't care at this point. Who knows how far he'll take this though. He just gave me some motivation to make her even happier. It was awesome because she told him off and got a little mean and he didn't reply back.

On a positive note, we did talk more about summer and how we can't wait and all this stuff so everything seems to be going very well. I'll probably bring up how I want to go away in a few months with her and a few of my other couple friends.

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Old 02-12-2013, 09:18 AM   #724
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The old "if I can't have you, no one can" ex routine. Keep doing you, if she truly moved on, you don't have to worry. If she hasn't, you can't change it anyways. Look at it as you're passed that stage of the relationship now. Either you two move on and grow from it, or it ruins it, I'd assume the former.
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Old 02-12-2013, 09:31 AM   #725
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Sounds like my ex. No matter how good things were she let the little problems come out and ruin her day. Another reason I do not miss her at all. How long have you been with her?
This week will be 6 months.

I dunno. Sometimes with her things feel awesome...like so connected. Other times like now we feel so far apart. We haven't had a lot of fun lately, she has been super busy with work and organizations the last two months. I have been tight on money from the holidays.

I don't doubt that she is fully into me. She has pics of me and pics of my son in her house. Has them at her work, on her phone, etc. She gets me cute cards and does all of those great thoughtful things that I totally love. But then when it comes time to just hang together and laugh....its like we are off. I don't get it.
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Old 02-12-2013, 09:53 AM   #726
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The old "if I can't have you, no one can" ex routine. Keep doing you, if she truly moved on, you don't have to worry. If she hasn't, you can't change it anyways. Look at it as you're passed that stage of the relationship now. Either you two move on and grow from it, or it ruins it, I'd assume the former.
So she talked to him again today and he apologized and said he was drinking last night and got upset. We found out who told him about us and it's the local bar manager that is a mutual friend of theirs. She told the ex he should lose her number. Obviously that wont be the last of him but I'm not worried. You really think this dude is more likely going to ruin us than for this to pass? Judging from her body language, the way she talks about it, and the attention she gives me, I don't see it being a real problem. It may be a little annoying but I don't think enough for her to give me up.
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Old 02-12-2013, 10:50 AM   #727
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You better be dishing out A games every single night. Til the other dude gives up.
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Old 02-12-2013, 11:02 AM   #728
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You better be dishing out A games every single night. Til the other dude gives up.
I'm not worried about my "game". I treat her great, I'm not a push over, I do a ton of the little things, we have fun and laugh a lot, and I fuuck her well.
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Old 02-12-2013, 11:22 AM   #729
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So, interesting night for me last night. Apparently the ex found out about us, not that I care, but he was running his mouth about how he heard I'm boring, and that i'm talking a ton of sh1t about her.
I initially thought this was your ex...and was confused by the he part since I was pretty sure you didn't have a boyfriend...
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Old 02-12-2013, 11:26 AM   #730
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I initially thought this was your ex...and was confused by the he part since I was pretty sure you didn't have a boyfriend...
haha I can see the confusion.
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Old 02-12-2013, 11:41 AM   #731
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Well my vday was a page from fail'ville.

She is going to be out of town this week due to work. So we arranged to get together last evening for a pre-vday vday.

Left work a few min early, got to her place, was in an upbeat mood, carried a positive demeonor. She was looking great too. Plan was to go out for a nice dinner then chill together at her place for a bit.

Dinner...as we sat down at the table...she snarked that she hoped they improved the place since she'd been there last. Umm ok. Then she began talking about her day...her stress at work....the people at work that she hates....the tasks she is working on that annoy her...etc. It was a total road trip down negativitiy lane. Sheesh!!!!! I tried to politely sway the convo saying hey..it is our vday...let's forget that stuff, have a few laughs and be us. Well then she got all quiet reluctant to say much. I suggested we share a dessert....she wasn't really into that idea. So I paid for the bill...we went back to her place.

Then my rotten luck kicked in. Whatever I ate started taking its toll on my stomach. I was def not fit to being doing anything close or intimate. So the night was a bomb and she'll be away until Saturday.

Hope you boys have better luck than I did.
Dated a woman like this..negativity sucked the positive out of me..ugh
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Old 02-12-2013, 12:16 PM   #732
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Well, I'm going to this winery release party I got invited to, along with two guests I can bring (invited two friends, they're a couple) My pops is flying out to meet me, so it'll be a cool social atmosphere, there are usually a lot of hot women at these things. Girl I used to date is a member of said winery, there is a chance she may be there I suppose attending this event..should I hit her up and see what she's up to? Or just play it cool, if she's there then she is, and just run into her..if she's not well, then mingle, maybe send her a text saying "hey I'm at xx spot, thought I'd run into you etc"I'm thinking the latter. Wouldn't mind seeing her obviously, atm just have a single mom I'm trying to bang, prospects are low currently.

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Old 02-12-2013, 12:18 PM   #733
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So she talked to him again today and he apologized and said he was drinking last night and got upset. We found out who told him about us and it's the local bar manager that is a mutual friend of theirs. She told the ex he should lose her number. Obviously that wont be the last of him but I'm not worried. You really think this dude is more likely going to ruin us than for this to pass? Judging from her body language, the way she talks about it, and the attention she gives me, I don't see it being a real problem. It may be a little annoying but I don't think enough for her to give me up.
The former=the first part of the sentence. So I'd assume this blows over quickly
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Old 02-12-2013, 12:37 PM   #734
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The former=the first part of the sentence. So I'd assume this blows over quickly
I'm a fuucking idiot sometimes. My bad dude. I can't read. I was just wondering if he's going to be creep mode and send her something for valentines day. When she stays over my house I usually leave a few minutes before her and warm up her car and sometimes I'll leave little gay things in there like a short note, or whatever. I was thinking of having her stay over Wednesday and I was thinking of getting her a few things like the roses, chocolate covered strawberries, and putting them in her car when she goes to leave on Thursday morning. My female friends said it's a great idea. Don't call me gay lol.

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Ah man I've just been messing around. Congrats to all of you on your Thursday. I'll be out wearing my green shirt on Vday
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Old 02-12-2013, 01:01 PM   #736
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I might be doing the same
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Old 02-12-2013, 08:44 PM   #738
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Well, I'm going to this winery release party I got invited to, along with two guests I can bring (invited two friends, they're a couple) My pops is flying out to meet me, so it'll be a cool social atmosphere, there are usually a lot of hot women at these things. Girl I used to date is a member of said winery, there is a chance she may be there I suppose attending this event..should I hit her up and see what she's up to? Or just play it cool, if she's there then she is, and just run into her..if she's not well, then mingle, maybe send her a text saying "hey I'm at xx spot, thought I'd run into you etc"I'm thinking the latter. Wouldn't mind seeing her obviously, atm just have a single mom I'm trying to bang, prospects are low currently.
date or relationship? Don't text regardless, maybe you will see her there maybe you won't.... something tells me you still are into her though?
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Old 02-12-2013, 09:09 PM   #739
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Well, I'm going to this winery release party I got invited to, along with two guests I can bring (invited two friends, they're a couple) My pops is flying out to meet me, so it'll be a cool social atmosphere, there are usually a lot of hot women at these things. Girl I used to date is a member of said winery, there is a chance she may be there I suppose attending this event..should I hit her up and see what she's up to? Or just play it cool, if she's there then she is, and just run into her..if she's not well, then mingle, maybe send her a text saying "hey I'm at xx spot, thought I'd run into you etc"I'm thinking the latter. Wouldn't mind seeing her obviously, atm just have a single mom I'm trying to bang, prospects are low currently.
Don't hit her up before. If you want to after then go ahead. Say something like you thought she'd be there or something
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date or relationship? Don't text regardless, maybe you will see her there maybe you won't.... something tells me you still are into her though?
Unfortunately I think so, it wasn't a full on relationship more of a fun thing that lasted a decent while.
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Don't hit her up before. If you want to after then go ahead. Say something like you thought she'd be there or something
That's exactly what I was thinking. Anyway really glad I posted this up here, I swear I'd make a lot more mistakes if it wasn't for this forum.
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