I fouled up.

So did you call her?

Originally Posted by SLVR JDM

It seems like he is already being himself. The invention you speak of would be contrary to his "good guy" nature and would be in an attempt to lure in women under a false assumption of who he truly is. Seems like a waste of time and rather pathetic to me.

If he's just looking to pull some randoms, your approach will work. For something more long lasting, acting like something you aren't just to try to pull a chick isn't a great start.

His advice can work, but like you said, and I agree, if it doesn't come natural don't bother. Start small on his outlook and it could gradually come naturally, but forcing something that isn't there is never good.

Originally Posted by Breezy

His advice can work, but like you said, and I agree, if it doesn't come natural don't bother. Start small on his outlook and it could gradually come naturally, but forcing something that isn't there is never good.

It sounds like she already knows "who" he is, so if he does anything out of character, it will be weird. Best of luck OP

Originally Posted by GasKing

Thats what im guessing, but im also guessing she changed it to avoid me? Now she had a change of heart? IDK but im going to give her a call today.

I don't know why you guys make it into such a confusing deal. The reason why you are lost and confused is not because of Her. It's all in your head, you made it confusing with all the assumptions.

If you want to know why she's not calling or texting you then just ask why. It's simple as that. No need to sit there and assume why and than make false analizations base on your assumptions. That's how people become miserable because they make up stories in their head and actually believing them.

So, stop beating behind the bush and go and find out what you want to know. Stop playing mind games with yourself and answering your own questions. You're a grown a55 man so stop guessing how she feels about you. You either grow some balls and lay everything on the table with her to get closure. Or, just keep guessing and assuming things and be miserable. She's not going to pity your state.

Sent from your girl's nostrils.

Originally Posted by GasKing

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Weve been hanging out a lot lately and ive had the feeling for the last 2 years that she's been waiting for me too take it more seriously. My dumbass never went further with it, now I find out shes dating some other guy (same industry as our families) that I know and wont respond to my texts or calls.

Thats it.

Women don't like "just hanging out" - unless you are in the friend zone and are just a convenience until something better comes along.

Move on. Nothing to see here.