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Old 03-11-2013, 01:42 PM   #1001
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Which is why you need to establish dominance right off the bat by not waiting for them to correct you.
I have never had a problem with "dominance" when it comes to parents. I do it out of respect and not to come off being presumptuous.
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Old 03-11-2013, 01:56 PM   #1002
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I have never had a problem with "dominance" when it comes to parents. I do it out of respect and not to come off being presumptuous.
Respect is something that's earned. It would be presumptions for them to assume you'll address them as Mr. and Mrs..
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Old 03-11-2013, 02:05 PM   #1003
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Respect is something that's earned. It would be presumptions for them to assume you'll address them as Mr. and Mrs..
They made an attractive daughter who allows me to have sexual relations with her, I will show them a level of respect.

I understand where you are coming from though. I don't assume they require me to address them by any specific means. Times have changed and greetings have as well. When dealing w/ people I don't even know, out shopping or what have you, I will use ma'am and sir as well. This is not specific to a girls parents for me.
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Old 03-11-2013, 02:34 PM   #1004
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Respect is something that's earned. It would be presumptions for them to assume you'll address them as Mr. and Mrs..
I completely disagree. In this situation you have nothing to lose and everything to gain by calling them mr and mrs. You do not need to show dominance. You're fuucking the daughter, not the father here.
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Old 03-11-2013, 02:48 PM   #1005
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....You're fuucking the daughter, not the father here.
At least we're hoping that's what's going on!
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Old 03-11-2013, 02:49 PM   #1006
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I completely disagree. In this situation you have nothing to lose and everything to gain by calling them mr and mrs. You do not need to show dominance. You're fuucking the daughter, not the father here.
I think a fist bump instead of a hand shake will also show them you're in-touch with urban culture.
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Old 03-11-2013, 02:57 PM   #1007
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Old 03-11-2013, 02:58 PM   #1008
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Went to a Swedish House Mafia show this past weekend. I tried convincing her to buy a ticket back in October. Would have been nice.... Had she not fvcked it all up
Troll her and be like, na I went and got the happy ending instead

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Guys meeting the parents soon - do u address them as mr and mrs or first name ?
Depends on setting and circumstances. I met my girls parents recently for a casual dinner so I addressed them as sir and maam till the mother was like please call me dollie. Father remains sir i think out of respect more then anything else.

The weekend update...

Surprisingly only lost 100$ in vegas while the girl left up 1,100$, she is a beast at roulette. Although her big win is a DAFUQ moment, walking by a table in the mirage, 25$ minimum she decides to toss a chip on her number, 17 and boom hit's it in one try. Even the Dealer is like DAFUQ jus happin? She literally jumps on me crazy excited, I would be too I wish I had snuck in a bet

Aside from that went to the movie shoot everything went rather smoothly it wrapped on time and we went to a nice dinner with the director and a few other friends/actors from the movie. They left early as they had to drive back to Los Angeles for work the next day leaving us to play and joke around. Pretty good time all in all we split a lot of things like the dinners and stuff well. When I was low on chips she toss some my way and visa versa.

Only interesting thing to note was we had a talk regarding the sex matter on teh drive back. The 15 got ridicuosly packed so we pulled over and the topic came up. She is still holding out waiting for the right moment but understands her choices and their affects is what is sumarized up to. She still wants to please me but I wonder about this issue. I am a sexual creature by nature and she is definitely one as well but I guess she holds some sort of value in this, which I can naturally understand but she's made the decision what is the hold up so to speak. I guess I can chalk it up to female emotions.
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Old 03-11-2013, 03:12 PM   #1009
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Depends on setting and circumstances. I met my girls parents recently for a casual dinner so I addressed them as sir and maam till the mother was like please call me dollie. Father remains sir i think out of respect more then anything else.

The weekend update...

Surprisingly only lost 100$ in vegas while the girl left up 1,100$, she is a beast at roulette. Although her big win is a DAFUQ moment, walking by a table in the mirage, 25$ minimum she decides to toss a chip on her number, 17 and boom hit's it in one try. Even the Dealer is like DAFUQ jus happin? She literally jumps on me crazy excited, I would be too I wish I had snuck in a bet

Aside from that went to the movie shoot everything went rather smoothly it wrapped on time and we went to a nice dinner with the director and a few other friends/actors from the movie. They left early as they had to drive back to Los Angeles for work the next day leaving us to play and joke around. Pretty good time all in all we split a lot of things like the dinners and stuff well. When I was low on chips she toss some my way and visa versa.

Only interesting thing to note was we had a talk regarding the sex matter on teh drive back. The 15 got ridicuosly packed so we pulled over and the topic came up. She is still holding out waiting for the right moment but understands her choices and their affects is what is sumarized up to. She still wants to please me but I wonder about this issue. I am a sexual creature by nature and she is definitely one as well but I guess she holds some sort of value in this, which I can naturally understand but she's made the decision what is the hold up so to speak. I guess I can chalk it up to female emotions.
imo wait it out if that's the only issue. I have amazing sex with my gf but it's just part of the equation. If things are going this smoothly and you still haven't done it in a few months then I would probably bring it up again.

Have you guys gotten really drunk together and hooked up yet?
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Old 03-11-2013, 03:32 PM   #1010
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imo wait it out if that's the only issue. I have amazing sex with my gf but it's just part of the equation. If things are going this smoothly and you still haven't done it in a few months then I would probably bring it up again.

Have you guys gotten really drunk together and hooked up yet?
At this time it really is the only issue and I am patient with it for the most part, so we're just rolling with life at the moment.

She and I aren't much of drinkers and especially after my last Ex being a alcoholic I definitely am back to my old drinking habits which is occasionally. I drank a bit in vegas some wine at dinner a couple of jack n cokes if that. I only really want a good scotch as of late but no budget for that. So far our fooling around has been all physical attraction.
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Old 03-11-2013, 03:48 PM   #1011
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At this time it really is the only issue and I am patient with it for the most part, so we're just rolling with life at the moment.

She and I aren't much of drinkers and especially after my last Ex being a alcoholic I definitely am back to my old drinking habits which is occasionally. I drank a bit in vegas some wine at dinner a couple of jack n cokes if that. I only really want a good scotch as of late but no budget for that. So far our fooling around has been all physical attraction.
You guys need a good drinking night in and sh1t will go down. Not completely blacked out but a big bottle of wine and a dinner and a movie will work well.
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Old 03-11-2013, 04:02 PM   #1012
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I've barely got her to taste wine's and find which one's she likes. This girl is very stubborn and sticks to her decision's a good and bad thing depending on your point of view
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Old 03-11-2013, 04:05 PM   #1013
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Replied very short and subtle to her text, didn't reply to her last one. She texted again asking how I did a certain part of an application for an internship (I know apps are due today). So she used 'how was the show?' as a hook.

I'm not replying. Go struggle.
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Old 03-11-2013, 04:12 PM   #1014
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About to rage.

Replied very short and subtle to her text, didn't reply to her last one. She texted again asking how I did a certain part of an application for an internship (I know apps are due today). So she used 'how was the show?' as a hook.

I'm not replying. Go struggle.
Stop replying. Stop over-analyzing her actions. Stop caring about the FB and Instagram bs. Let it die man.
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Old 03-11-2013, 04:20 PM   #1015
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Old 03-11-2013, 04:44 PM   #1016
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Kill it with fire?
Kill it with fire and don't even bother to put it out with peepee touches.
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Old 03-11-2013, 05:29 PM   #1019
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I told you to kill it a month ago.

As far as meeting the parents, depends on your age, and their personality.
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