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Old 07-31-2013, 02:27 PM   #21
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You're worried about money because you feel that's all you can give her at this point. She has kids, drama, and all of that, she just needs a money supply. You feel that's your way in. You're not going to listen, but this girl is a terrible choice for a guy your age. She knows you're mentally weak so she can tell you any little "but I love you and always will" BS and then move away. It's immature BS and you're too blinded by your own emotions to see it.

Wake up, walk away, and throw a quarter in a crowded bar and smash the one it hits, guaranteed a better choice than this one.
To set the record strait she is financially stable 100% without me. Just as a male figure I feel I should at least help. She has never asked for money or anything like that from me before.

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looks can deceive you from the truth. you are blinded with what you feel about her and you only see the part of her that supports your feelings. that would be the part where she says she wants to get back with you and she regret what she has done to you previously. step back and see everything. If you still feel the same way about her then so be it..
Damn, when its put like this it starts to get pretty clear.

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+10000, this girl has more drama than TNT. She left you in the first place is a blessing. Girls are kinda fock up this way. She was crazy, you were not so she left you for someone like her (crazy). The only reason you like her b/c it's easy sex, don't fall for that so easily. You don't want that kinda drama in your life.
It's not easy sex, only been with her once since her whole divorce.

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Old 07-31-2013, 05:39 PM   #22
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You're 22 years old. Jesus man, are you insane?!?!? At 22 you should not even be entertaining the idea of making a serious go at a single mother of 2. Live YOUR life a little before you decide to take on the responsibility of raising two children. Especially two children (which wether you're willing to admit or not) I suspect you harboe at least a small amount of resentment for. The confusion of why she would have somone elses child so soon after aborting yours will only add to the voltility of the situation over time.

How is it that she financially secure given her current situation, single mother and going to school but had to move closer to her parents?

Oh, and I agree with what others have said, I suspect she is crazier than a sh!t house rat.
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Old 08-02-2013, 02:46 PM   #23
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damn, gotta say there's some pretty great advice in here.

i too agree that she's bad news, and as much as you want to hope that it would work out, the signs all point the other direction. i was kinda like you at one time, feeling like i had an obligation to help a girl out even after all she did to me.

you're definitely the one who is going to lose in the situation at the end, dont let your feelings get in the way of reality. walk!
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Old 08-02-2013, 03:07 PM   #24
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At age 22 there is no reason to get with a chick with kids, period. As you get into your 30's (I'd say late 30's at that), your approach will have to change in that regard. The older they get, the more likely they are to have had kids, been divorced, etc.

If you're looking for chicks in their early 20's there should be plenty of options which don't include kids, baby's-daddy, divorces, etc.
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Old 08-03-2013, 03:08 PM   #25
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So I talked to her Last night for about 4 hours.
I just told her that right now, we can't have anything past friendship. I told her that although I care about her and the two girls, Because I do. I simply can not be in a relationship right now. I just explained that since im struggling right now, I don't want to feel obligated to help, because I have to make sure my stuff taken care of before anyone else. We agreed to stay in contact but just not in a romantic/Relationship way. I told her she is more than welcome to look for another guy and I hoped that he would understand If I did. (Not saying ether of us would but if it comes up nether can be upset about it.)

I feel like Im doing the right thing. Thanks so much for all the help. I like this fourm because most guys are older than me and you all have been through alot and I can learn from all of your mistakes. Appreciate it guys.


BTW meet a new girl the other day................seems good.......we shall see haha
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Old 08-03-2013, 03:42 PM   #26
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If you end up on Jerry make an appointment to go on Maury with number three. I think they film in the same place. You will get over her. Maybe be friends with her someday. Why you want to try to settle down with some girl who left twice and, if I read correctly, had two babies and not yours. You are thinking with the wrong head- you said it when you were thinking with the right one. I think you are getting good advice from everyone.

I think that when you find another one that you like as much as this one you will be fine. Until then have fun and enjoy life.

P.S. I happened to scroll up to fix a typo and saw what you typed. Congrats. I am happy you are moving on and no matter what there is always another girl who is better for you if you don't settle. The late 30s comment is golden, but beware of that too. Gold digging fake boobs with three kids come crawling out of the woodwork. I think that when your ex's priorities changed she realize she chose bad dudes and has regrets. Some of these comments might be generalizations but I am friendly with the college fiance and did play with fakes in my 30s. Now I have typed too much. But, seriously good luck.
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Old 08-04-2013, 09:18 AM   #27
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I told her she is more than welcome to look for another guy and I hoped that he would understand If I did.
Wait, what?
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Old 08-04-2013, 09:25 AM   #28
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At a loss on what to do. Advice needed.

Dude, just reading the first two paragraphs, I can tell you need to run. Not be friends, not cuddle buddies, not shopping buddies, just run.


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Old 08-08-2013, 06:38 PM   #29
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Re: At a loss on what to do. Advice needed.

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Wait, what?
Hey babe, take a walk on the wild side.

And the colored girls go do doo do do doo do do do do........

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Old 08-08-2013, 07:15 PM   #30
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I could give some in depth advice, but **** that. Run far away.
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Old 08-08-2013, 07:28 PM   #31
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Run away dude! She got more drama than HBO...

You are 22? You have a lot ahead of you before you are saddled down with a wife and kids.

Nothing to see here... Move along... Move along...
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Old 08-23-2013, 03:41 AM   #32
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