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Old 08-29-2013, 05:20 PM   #1
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My bad habit of dating party girls...

First off, I live in Las Vegas so it's almost inevitable dating these girls. But I just dumped my ex on account of her bad habit of constantly being in bars, and getting wasted. It used to be a once a week thing with her and her co-workers. (She blames it on working in the service industry, her quote is "everyone in the service industry drinks" which i think is bullsh*t). In our year of dating she got 2 DUI's in a 3 month period, why I stuck around I have no idea. I bailed her out of jail the second time. After a while I developed anxiety at the thought of her being out with friends, and through the bad advice of one of my friends I started taking xanax regularly (I'm stupid I know). I used to have to sleep with my phone on loud right next to my head, incase she needed me, I also kept a stack of cash incase she went to jail again. This added much stress, anxiety, and frustration on my part. In the year we have been dating I picked her up at least 25 times because she was too drunk to drive. At all hours of the night, it even caused me to lose the greatest job I'll probably ever have, for my slipping performance.


To me it's just disgusting to be around drunk girls, let alone someone older than me that is acting so irresponsible. She is 26 and I just turned 22. I should be raging, but she has somehow ruined that for me. Every once and a while she would stop and things would be great, but after a year of her binge drinking being off and on I've given up. There is just no point anymore.

My moral of the story, don't mess with Vegas women.

nonetheless, I feel liberated at last.

Thanks for reading.
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Old 08-29-2013, 05:44 PM   #2
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You made the right move man, that was a shiity situation so props for doing the right thing and getting out. The fact that she's going out drinking all the time without even inviting you is a crappy thing to begin with (who knows what or who she's doing) and you shouldn't be responsible for bailing her out of jail...ever. There are good girls everywhere but if you feel like the best way to get away from it is to move, then what's holding you back?
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Old 08-29-2013, 05:46 PM   #3
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It's hard to do, it's not possible to date somebody who always is trashed.

On another note, how do you like living/working in Vegas? I have a job opportunity to transfer out to vegas and I just think it would be so hard to not turn into that drunk, broke person due to the lifestyle you would get in vegas
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Old 08-29-2013, 06:21 PM   #4
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It's hard to do, it's not possible to date somebody who always is trashed.

On another note, how do you like living/working in Vegas? I have a job opportunity to transfer out to vegas and I just think it would be so hard to not turn into that drunk, broke person due to the lifestyle you would get in vegas

I love it here honestly. The most annoying thing for me though is there is no culture here really. Everyone is just all about clubs, pools etc. And honestly we have some dope clubs, but I never fit in with that scene since i've been told I'm "overly responsible". I honestly love it. Just if you do move here don't lose your head in the clubs, strip clubs, bars etc.

BTW for anyone thinking of visiting, the strip is wack. Downtown LV is where it's at.
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Old 08-29-2013, 06:23 PM   #5
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It might take a while but you will find a nice clean girl that doesn't do that sht over there. Hang in there
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Old 08-29-2013, 06:23 PM   #6
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You made the right move man, that was a shiity situation so props for doing the right thing and getting out. The fact that she's going out drinking all the time without even inviting you is a crappy thing to begin with (who knows what or who she's doing) and you shouldn't be responsible for bailing her out of jail...ever. There are good girls everywhere but if you feel like the best way to get away from it is to move, then what's holding you back?

Our plan was to move to SF because that's where she's from.
But since that arrangement is done lol, I've been looking at places in San Diego this week just to get away from her.
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Old 08-29-2013, 06:26 PM   #7
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Thanks anybody who read, or gave positive words, if I posted this on my other regular forums it would be relentless sh*t talking.
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Old 08-29-2013, 06:51 PM   #8
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My bad habit of dating party girls...

You made a great choice. Attractive and drunk is never a good mix at the bar/club, it makes it easy for other men to take advantage of her. My opinion is you would of had to dump her sooner or later.


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Old 08-30-2013, 01:00 PM   #9
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Old 08-30-2013, 01:07 PM   #10
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Old 08-30-2013, 02:08 PM   #11
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Old 08-30-2013, 03:08 PM   #12
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BTW for anyone thinking of visiting, the strip is wack. Downtown LV is where it's at.
This is what I've heard...and think I will be adhering to it next trip. I'm ok with pools and hanging out during the day, however like you've said the "club" mentality doesn't fit me much either and think I'd have a more enjoyable time out at night away from the strip.

Good on you to figure that out about the girl, bummer it took a bit longer than it probably should have however you are clear of it now.
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My bad habit of dating party girls...

My ex turned into a party girl out of boredom. She drinks daily, alone in her hotel when on the road etc.

It's a let down and they call it just having "fun" but it's a lifestyle that I expect more of out of a 26 year old.

They will grow up eventually-or not lol


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Old 09-01-2013, 12:41 PM   #14
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My bad habit of dating party girls...

They're fun to f##k... Not much more though. Lesson learned right? I've "dated" plenty of party girls. The key is to know they are just that. And as easy as it was to have sex with them, there's prob 10-15 other guys that have had it that easy too....


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Old 10-13-2013, 03:33 AM   #15
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Party girls are awesome

not the kind of girls you wife up tho
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Old 10-15-2013, 09:45 PM   #16
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First off, I live in Las Vegas so it's almost inevitable dating these girls. But I just dumped my ex on account of her bad habit of constantly being in bars, and getting wasted. It used to be a once a week thing with her and her co-workers. (She blames it on working in the service industry, her quote is "everyone in the service industry drinks" which i think is bullsh*t). In our year of dating she got 2 DUI's in a 3 month period, why I stuck around I have no idea. I bailed her out of jail the second time. After a while I developed anxiety at the thought of her being out with friends, and through the bad advice of one of my friends I started taking xanax regularly (I'm stupid I know). I used to have to sleep with my phone on loud right next to my head, incase she needed me, I also kept a stack of cash incase she went to jail again. This added much stress, anxiety, and frustration on my part. In the year we have been dating I picked her up at least 25 times because she was too drunk to drive. At all hours of the night, it even caused me to lose the greatest job I'll probably ever have, for my slipping performance.


To me it's just disgusting to be around drunk girls, let alone someone older than me that is acting so irresponsible. She is 26 and I just turned 22. I should be raging, but she has somehow ruined that for me. Every once and a while she would stop and things would be great, but after a year of her binge drinking being off and on I've given up. There is just no point anymore.

My moral of the story, don't mess with Vegas women.

nonetheless, I feel liberated at last.

Thanks for reading.
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Dang. What a great guy... I need someone like that. Although I am very sorry you had to deal with all the stress & anxiety.
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Old 10-15-2013, 10:42 PM   #17
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Re: My bad habit of dating party girls...

Just remember you'd have to deal with that for the rest of your life. Figure her out before you get serious

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